Why Unplugging More Often Could Be The Best Thing For Your Mental Health.

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If you think about it, it’s unusual how overly connected we are to everyone and the world. A decade ago, if you sent a text message to someone and then a “Hello??” minutes afterward, you’d look desperate or rude, but nowadays, it’s a whole 180 degrees, and instead, if you’re not the one responding back in minutes, you’re the rude one! From the moment we wake up to the time we fall asleep, our lives are dominated by screens.

Whether it’s checking emails, scrolling through social media, or binge-watching the latest series, our digital devices have become constant companions. Now, everyone knows how dangerous it can be to use phones and screens too much. There are limits for kids, but not too much pressure to limit children, right?

Generally speaking, this interconnectedness can be way too negative. There’s doom scrolling, contact misinformation online, full-on rude people, trolls, and questionable hostility overall. It’s not good. The Internet can be an escape from reality, but nowadays, real life feels more like an escape from the internet.

So, why not unplug more often? Here’s why you should!

You Have to Keep in Mind There’s a Mirage to Social Media

It’s no secret that platforms like Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and Twitter are filled with picture-perfect snapshots and videos of people’s lives. Some of these people seem to have perfect lives, like the perfect job, the perfect family, the perfect house, the perfect friends, and everything in their lives is absolutely perfect.

Their lives are just perfect, and you can’t help but feel sad and jealous to the point you’re probably thinking, “Do I have depression” right? But here’s the kicker: what you see is often just a highlight reel. Sure, what you see appears perfect, but chances are, it’s the furthest thing from perfect.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to these seemingly flawless lives. This comparison can seriously dent our self-esteem. It makes you feel like there’s inadequacy, right? Well, you’re constantly seeing everyone’s best moments; it’s hard not to feel like you’re falling short in your own life.

Doom Scrolling is Dangerous

Social media isn’t the only reason to unplug. Are you scrolling and seeing an endless stream of bad news? Maybe it’s political turmoil, natural disaster, or something else that’s overwhelmingly bleak. This constant negativity is going to lead to stress and anxiety in some people so make sure you look after yourself and monitor how much you watch.

It’s Best to Reconnect with the Real World

The real world is an escape from the internet, and honestly, it can be a fairly good escape. When you unplug, you have the opportunity to engage with the world around you. It usually gives you a better chance to spend time with loved ones, go for a walk in nature, or pick up a hobby that doesn’t involve a screen. Overall, these activities can help ground you and remind you of what truly matters.

Unplugging Improves Your Sleep

Screen time, especially before bed, can interfere with your sleep. The blue light emitted by our devices can mess with our sleep patterns, making it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep. Unplugging in the evening can lead to better, more restful sleep.

It’s All About Boosting Your Mood

Being connected all the time is stress-inducing, and engaging in offline activities can boost your mood and reduce stress. Reach out to your Dr or therapist if you need help boosting your mood.

This article was written by a freelance writer,

Four Ways To Enhance The Quality Of Your Sleep And Mental Health

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There are plenty of things you can do that can improve your life, but if you haven’t got the basics in place, then it’s harder to make the most of all that life offers you. Let’s think about sleep. No one’s their best self when they’re running low on sleep. It makes all aspects of life more difficult, most notably our relationships — because after all, who isn’t irritable when they wish they could still be in bed? Lack of sleep can also worsen mental health conditions including anxiety and depression and being in a good sleep routine helps improve these.

You can’t always guarantee a full 6 – 8 hours of sleep, but you can increase the likelihood. In this post, we’ll look at some handy tips for consistently sleeping well. 

Get Serious About Your Sleep Routine

Taking an ad hoc approach to your sleep might work, but it’s not a very reliable method. A better approach is to get serious about having a proper sleep routine. Humans are creatures of habit, so the longer you do your sleep routine, the more effective it’ll be. You don’t need to do anything wild; simply going to bed/getting up at the same time each day is a good enough start.

Get Active During the Day

You’ll find it more difficult to fall asleep if you still have a lot of energy. You’ll wake up with an allotted amount of energy, and if you don’t use it, then well, your body’s not going to get the hint that it should go back to sleep. You don’t have to run a marathon every day to tire your body out, but you should be at least a little active. This is especially an issue for people who work from home, who are generally less active than people who travel to work. Keep moving and improve your sleep and health!

Use/Avoid The Right Products

Some products are good for sleep, and some will help to keep you awake. Coffee might be great in the morning when you want to be more alert, but if you have it too late in the day (say, after 3 pm), then you might find that you’re lying in bed while still completely wide awake.

Alcohol consumption can also impact the quality of sleep you get and worsens mental health. On the other hand, CBD oil (without the psychoactive part) and chamomile tea have both been shown to help relax the body and put it in a state ready for sleep. Lavender oil also really helps relax the body and mind. Sometimes, you just need a relaxing regime to aid sleep.

Creating a Calm Atmosphere

Some people can fall asleep anywhere. But that’s not the case for most people. It’s generally easy to fall asleep in a calm and relaxed atmosphere. So take a look at your bedroom: does it fit that description? If not, then look at making some changes.

Decluttering, changing the lighting, and making the space a tech-free zone (no phones in bed!) will all help to make it a sleep-friendly environment. You may also keep some books handy for when you can’t drift away and calming things by your bedside eg lavender spray.

Good sleep is vital for good mental health. These tips will help you to get better quality sleep.

This article was written by a freelance writer.

Thriving Through Time: Prioritising Mental Health for Life’s Journey by Millie Fuller

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Mental health is finally getting recognition in society. The NHS in the UK has appointed their first medical director for mental health and neurodiversity. Our wellbeing should come first during all stages of life. 

Mental Health at Any Age

Poor mental health doesn’t discriminate, and it can affect anyone at any age. It impacts how we cope and how we relate to other people.  

The Signs of Mental Health Issues

Note anything that might be a sign of poor mental health. 

This can look different depending on age. 

Some common signs include:

  • Mood changes
  • Pulling away from social activities
  • Changes in sleep habits
  • Unexplained aches and pains
  • Suicidal ideation/ self harm
  • Unexpected anger or always tearful
  • Change in eating habits

Carers should also look out for any of these signs early on. The faster these are acted on, the sooner the quality of life can improve. 

The Role of Social Connection

As humans, we thrive around others. Our loved ones and our community give us both emotional support and a sense of belonging. 

To expand connections, look at joining a club or doing some volunteering. These interactions can ease loneliness, which can be especially common in older adults. 

Coping with Life Transitions

As we age, we’ll go through many transitions in life, some positive, and some not. Things like retirement, the loss of a spouse or even moving house can be difficult to navigate. Triggering negative feelings.

Reach out to a trusted friend. But if things start to become unmanageable, seek the help of a professional, like a GP or psychiatrist.

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Trying Mindfulness and Meditation

Lots of people find these practices useful. It helps to connect us to our feelings without judgment. Being aware of our emotions is so important and connecting with our breath.

Start with breathing exercises or guided meditation. To reduce anxiety, mindfulness should be done regularly.

Maintaining Hobbies and Interests

Make time for your hobbies- whether its sport, art, writing, gaming, music or drama. Taking time to do things we enjoy gives a sense of achievement. In some cases, it also connects us with others.

The Role of Technology in Mental Health

Many apps offer mental health support, and some of them are even free. Social media is also a great tool for staying in touch with loved ones. 

Older adults might need some support for navigating new technology. Carers or loved ones might need to give them a helping hand.

Nutrition and Mental Health

When we’re not feeling great mentally, it’s easy to fall into bad eating patterns. But we need to make sure we’re getting the vitamins and minerals that keep our brains healthy.  Eating well is key at any age to support a healthy mind. 

Summary

As we go through life’s journey, we must focus on our mental health at every stage. Learning to test how we’re feeling and navigate changes will keep our brains healthy. If we start to notice a decline, there’s no shame in seeking the help of a professional. It can help us navigate through this tough period. 

Stay connected to others and build new connections through mutual interests. For carers there’s plenty of resources online for creating a plan to help your loved one’s mental health.

Millie Fuller is a freelance writer.

Accessing Therapy And Our Groundbreaking Mission: by 24hr Therapy

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At 24hr Therapy, we are driven by a simple yet profound belief: accessing therapy should be as natural and straightforward as getting a coffee. Our mission is to remove the stigma that surrounds mental health issues and foster a culture where mental well-being is openly discussed and prioritised. For too long, mental health has been shrouded in misunderstanding and fear, preventing many from seeking the help they need. We aim to change this by making mental health care more approachable, accessible, and integrated into daily life.

Imagine a world where scheduling a therapy session is as routine as meeting a friend for coffee. This is the future we envision—a society where mental health care is seamlessly woven into the fabric of daily life. Leveraging technology and innovative approaches, we provide 24-hour access to professional support, making it easier for people to get the help they need, whenever they need it.

Unlike traditional therapy, which often requires waiting days or even weeks for an appointment, our platform offers immediate support with a pay-per-minute model, giving users complete control over their spending and making high-quality mental health care both accessible and affordable.

Our platform is the first of its kind, offering therapy to users the very same day they sign up. Available anytime, anywhere, 24 hours a day, we connect users with a qualified therapist within minutes.

This immediate access is crucial, especially considering that nearly two-thirds of people surveyed in the UK (64%) put on a brave face to avoid talking about their mental health. We understand firsthand the importance of immediate support, and our mission is to ensure that everyone has access to the care they need, exactly when they need it.

We are dedicated to improving well-being with personalised, immediate assistance. Our diverse network of certified counsellors and therapists is equipped to assist with a range of mental health concerns, whether managing a diagnosed condition or navigating everyday stressors. By empowering individuals to prioritise their mental well-being, we are reshaping the narrative around mental health and fostering a culture of understanding, compassion, and accessibility.

We have an innovative approach to mental health care and are UK based. Together, we can redefine how we think about mental health and ensure that everyone has the opportunity to thrive.

Take a look at https://www.24hrtherapy.co.uk/

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Fighting The Stigma of Addiction by Addressing 5 Common Misconceptions by Aaron Smith.

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Addiction is so intricate and multifaceted that in the face of extensive scientific research, there are still myths and misconceptions about it that often get in the way of treatment. They cause stigma that keeps people from getting help for fear of being labelled as ‘bad’ or ‘weak’. But, to win the fight against addiction, we have to confront some common misconceptions to create an environment that empowers people and encourages them to get treatment for successful recovery. Here are some of the top misconceptions about addiction: 

5 Common Misconceptions About Addiction

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Myth 1. Addiction is by choice: If a person is addicted to something, it’s because they chose to be, and it’s their fault. 

The truth is that no one chooses to become addicted—addiction is a brain disorder. The American Society of Addiction Medicine describes it as a treatable chronic disease that is a result of the interactions between the brain circuits, upbringing, trauma, environment, and genetics. Heavy and prolonged substance use interferes with the brain networks and increases the likelihood of becoming addicted. 

Nevertheless, a choice can influence the recovery journey. The person may choose to seek help dealing with addiction through addiction therapy, exercises, symptoms treatment, and other lifestyle decisions. 

Myth 2. It just takes willpower to stop: Addiction results from a lack of willpower, if the person wanted to stop using badly enough, they would. 

Sadly, a person cannot ‘will away’ their addiction, and it does not result from a lack of willpower or self-discipline. Drugs, alcohol, and other substances produce profound brain changes that alter the natural reward system. 

Typically, mental rewards come only after exerting effort, and this takes a while. But, the addictive behavior shortcuts this process and gives the brain pleasure early on. When the brain is used to early results, the person’s self-control and capacity to make good decisions is eroded and replaced with the impulse to engage in rewarding behavior. 

The substance-induced impulses are not like the usual urges to eat or drink. They are overwhelming and compulsive impulses whose resolution is only engaging the addiction. It’s the reason why addiction appears irrational in that a person will keep using it even when things are falling apart around them. 

Myth 3. Tough love compels people with addiction to stop: If you are harsh with the individual, they will understand the seriousness of the issue and feel the need to change. 

With addiction, ‘tough love’ is not the answer. Being harsh, insensitive, or indifferent may cause the person to feel unworthy, demoralised, and rejected. It typically produces the opposite results of what was intended. 

The better way to address addiction is to take a kind and compassionate approach. The reality is that the majority of people with an addiction are usually contending with other struggles and use addiction to compensate. For example, many people with an addiction struggle with feelings of rejection, and pushing them away with ‘tough love’ only aggravates the underlying problem. However, love, kindness, and support can pull the person closer, address the underlying problem, and start them off on the addiction recovery journey. 

Myth 4. Addiction does not really go away: An addict will never be truly free. Once an addict, always an addict. 

Addiction is a complex condition, and recovering from it takes time. It can indeed be a chronic condition, but even then, the individual can still recover. Addiction is not a life sentence, and there is always hope to get back on a healthy path and live a fulfilling life. 

Regardless, it’s normal to have some recovery setbacks. Although it doesn’t happen with everybody, relapsing and returning to substance use after abstaining for some time is normal. But this is not a sign of failure. Instead, it’s an opportunity to discover what is not working in addiction therapy and to restrategize the treatment. Every person is unique, and the relapse provides a chance to understand the unique factors that drove the individual to relapse and helps with formulating strategies to prevent another relapse in the future. 

Anyone can break free from the cycle of addiction permanently. It just takes a combination of recovery therapy, support from family and friends, and personal growth to give them a renewed purpose to live. 

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Myth 5. You must abstain to recover: The only way to recover is to keep off the substance completely.

The truth is that recovery means different things to different people. Abstinence is only one form of recovery and not the final destination for all people. Moderating use so that substance reliance no longer interferes with a person’s productivity or relationships is also recovery. Some people are only looking to reduce substance use, while others are only looking to use a less harmful substance. From there, these people watch their consumption or wean themselves off, even without treatment. 

So, instead of insisting on abstinence or giving a timeline for a complete cessation of use, understand that recovery from addiction is a journey that some reach pretty quickly while others take small steps and a long time to get to the same destination. 

Addiction Recovery Can Be Made Easier 

Addiction is difficult to resolve, and it doesn’t help that there are many myths and misconceptions surrounding it that further complicate the recovery. But, through education and awareness on addiction and recovery, and showing love, support, and empathy towards the individuals, society can make the recovery journey easier. 

Addiction therapy is a particularly useful recovery tool because it sets the individual in an environment where the people and the programs support recovery. Sign up for therapy and start your path to recovery today!

Aaron Smith is a freelance writer.

Tap Your Worries Away – How EFT Therapy (Emotional Freedom Technique) Changed My Life by Dominika Kalinowska

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I’m Dominika Kalinowska, and I’ve been battling anxiety for a good chunk of my life, especially during my university days in the UK. Little did I know, anxiety would become my constant companion.

It started with those occasional anxious moments in my younger years, but once university hit, it ramped up. I was juggling studies, part-time work, and adapting to a new country. Stress became my middle name, and it took a toll on both my mind and body.

I tried all the usual stuff—meditation, yoga, positive affirmations—but nothing seemed to stick. My body rebelled with heart palpitations, vertigo, and all sorts of nasty symptoms. I withdrew from social life, fearing the physical fallout of pushing myself too hard.

But here’s the thing: once I stopped fighting my anxiety and accepted it for what it was, things started to change. I stumbled upon something called EFT therapy, or tapping therapy. It’s this great practice where you tap on specific points of your body while talking about how you feel.

I know, it sounds a bit out there, but trust me, it works. With each tap, I felt a little lighter, a little freer. It was like I was finally giving myself permission to feel my emotions without judgment. And that made all the difference.

So, what exactly is EFT therapy? Well, it’s a blend of ancient Chinese acupressure and modern psychology. Sounds fancy, right? But it’s actually pretty simple. With EFT, you tap on specific meridian points on your body while focusing on the issue you want to address.

Here’s how it typically goes down: you identify a problem—whether it’s anxiety, stress, pain, or anything else that’s bothering you—and then you start tapping. As you tap, you also say out loud how you’re feeling and what you’d like to feel instead.

It’s like giving yourself permission to acknowledge your emotions and then letting them go. And let me tell you, it’s incredibly freeing. I first heard about EFT therapy during my search for healing anxiety. Traditional methods weren’t cutting it for me, so I figured, why not give tapping a try? And boy, am I glad I did. With each tap, I felt a little lighter, a little more in control of my emotions.

But here’s the thing: EFT therapy isn’t just about tapping away your troubles. It’s also about reprogramming your brain. By combining tapping with positive affirmations, you’re essentially rewiring your brain to think more positively.

And the best part? You can do it anytime, anywhere. No fancy equipment or expensive therapy sessions required. All you need is your hands and a willingness to give it a shot.

I’m not saying EFT therapy is a magic cure-all. It’s just one tool in the toolbox for managing your emotions. But for many—including myself—it’s been a lifesaver.

Now, as a psychologist and hypnotherapist, I’m all about spreading the word on EFT therapy. And if it worked for me, it can work for you too.

So, if anxieties got you in its grip, don’t be afraid to reach out for help. Whether it’s therapy, meditation, or a good old-fashioned chat with a friend, there’s support out there. You’re not alone in this journey, and there’s no shame in asking for a helping hand.

With love,

Dominika  

Dominika Kalinowska is a psychologist, psychotherapist and hypnotherapist who has benefited personally from EFT therapy.

What Eye Tests Can Reveal About Your Mental Health  by Addy Reeds.

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Eye health goes beyond just vision acuity; it can also offer a window into one’s mental and overall health. Recent studies have shown that comprehensive eye exams can uncover early signs of mental health conditions. In this post, we’ll discuss how certain eye tests can be indicative of broader health issues, shedding light on the intricate connection between eye and mental health.  

Visual Field Test and Anxiety Disorders 

A visual field test measures the entire scope of vision, including peripheral vision. Individuals with anxiety disorders may exhibit an unusually narrow visual field. This constriction is often linked to heightened alertness to threats, a common characteristic of anxiety disorders. By identifying these patterns, eye care professionals can recommend further psychological evaluation. 

Retinal Screening and Depression 

Retinal screening involves the examination of the back of the eye, including blood vessels. Changes in retinal blood flow and the thickness of retinal layers might correlate with depression. The retina is an extension of the brain, and its health could reflect the state of brain health. These findings at optometry clinics can prompt referrals for mental health assessments. 

Pupil Response Tests and Schizophrenia 

Pupil response tests evaluate how pupils adjust to light and darkness. Abnormalities in pupil reactions can be indicative of schizophrenia. Specifically, individuals with this condition may show an exaggerated pupil dilation when focusing on certain tasks. These variances in pupil response offer critical clues for early detection and management of schizophrenia. 

Eye Movement Tests and ADHD 

Tests that assess the rapidity and accuracy of eye movements can offer insights into Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). People with ADHD tend to have difficulty maintaining steady visual focus, leading to rapid eye movements. This characteristic can help differentiate ADHD from other attention disorders, guiding appropriate treatment and support. 

Color Vision Tests and Cognitive Health 

Color vision tests do not just assess the ability to distinguish colors; they can also reveal cognitive health aspects. Certain neurological conditions, including dementia and Alzheimer’s disease, can impair color vision. Early detection of these changes in color perception can lead to timely cognitive assessments and interventions. 

Contrast Sensitivity Test and Anxiety Levels 

Interesting research has revealed a correlation between reduced contrast sensitivity and higher levels of anxiety. This might be due to the way anxiety can affect neural pathways related to vision processing. Identifying a decrease in contrast sensitivity could, therefore, suggest the need for a mental health check-up, underlining the complex interplay between visual function and mental well-being. 

Optical Coherence Tomography (OCT) and Bipolar Disorder 

Optical Coherence Tomography (OCT) is a non-invasive imaging test that provides detailed images of the retina’s various layers. Recent studies suggest that individuals with bipolar disorder may have certain retinal nerve fiber layer abnormalities detectable through OCT. These abnormalities in the eye’s structure could reflect alterations in neural pathways associated with bipolar disorder.  

Eye tests provide valuable insights not only into one’s vision but also into overall mental health. The connection between the two underscores the importance of regular psychological assessments as well as consultations from optometry clinics like Calvert Ophthalmology Center. Surprisingly, eye exams can reveal early signs of mental health conditions, which can offer an opportunity for early intervention and support.  

The Digital Descent: Understanding the Connection Between Doomscrolling, Anxiety and Panic Attacks by Charles Watson

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In 2024, there is a growing awareness of the effects associated with constantly consuming negative news, a behaviour commonly known as “doomscrolling.” Media and constant news updates often fuel this habit of seeking out distressing information. Sadly, this can have serious implications for both physical and mental health.

Recent conversations among health experts have shed light on the link between doomscrolling and the increase in Substance-Induced Anxiety Disorder (SIAD) as well as panic attacks. As someone who writes on mental health, I wanted to delve into this correlation, providing insights and practical tips to protect your health in a world that appears to be in a perpetual state of crisis.

What is the Meaning of Doomscrolling?

Doomscrolling involves the consumption of news. Consumers caught up in this cycle feel compelled always to follow disasters, political unrest, environmental crises, and other distressing events, resulting in prolonged exposure to negative media. Additionally, some may even engage in extended sessions of watching vertical, short-form videos without awareness of the passage of time.

We can admit staying informed is important. However, constant focus on distressing media can affect one’s well-being.

Psychological Effects of Doomscrolling

The brain is naturally inclined to react to threats with a fight-or-flight response—a survival instinct ingrained in our biology throughout history.

However, when the mind is activated by immediate non-physical threats, like distressing news, it can result in prolonged stress. This prolonged state of vigilance can heighten anxiety levels over time potentially leading to anxiety disorders and panic episodes.

However, why is it so addictive to watch distressing news? Well, engaging in doomscrolling triggers the activation of dopamine receptors, which provides short relief from anxiety, despite the eventual worsening of mood. 

What is more concerning is individuals often revert to doomscrolling in an attempt to alleviate their distress, perpetuating the cycle of negative emotions.

Link to Substance-Induced Anxiety Disorder

Substance-induced Anxiety Disorder (SIAD) begins to show its ugly face when symptoms of anxiety or panic stem directly from substance consumption, withdrawal, or exposure to substances. Common culprits include caffeine, alcohol, nicotine, and certain prescription drugs. 

People who engage in doomscrolling may resort to substances like alcohol or prescription drugs as a coping mechanism for the anxiety and stress triggered by the news they consume. This could establish a cycle where substance use provides relief from anxiety symptoms but later worsens them, possibly resulting in SIAD.

Real World Implications – Panic Attacks

Panic attacks are episodes of fear that may manifest as heart palpitations, sweating, trembling, etc.  Sometimes there is even an overwhelming sense of dread and fear of losing control. 

For those who are exposed to negative news, unfortunately their threshold for panic attacks may be lower. Substances used to manage this stress can further decrease this threshold, making panic attacks more frequent and intense.

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Tips for Breaking This Habit

Breaking free from the cycle of doomscrolling requires effort and specific strategies. Here are some “practical?” steps you can follow;

1. Establish Strict Time Boundaries

Hold yourself to designated times during the day for checking the news and make a commitment to stick to these schedules. Utilizing apps restricting your access to websites or social media platforms can help you maintain this routine.

2. Customise Your Social Media Content

Take a role in curating your social media feeds by including uplifting content. Follow accounts that share stories or even your city media feeds to create a balanced experience alongside the inevitable negative news we all have to see.

3. Try Healthy Coping Mechanisms

It may be time to hit the gym. Or engage in activities such as yoga or jogging. Better yet, incorporate mindfulness techniques like meditation or diaphragmatic breathing. Finally, find a way to express yourself through creative endeavors like writing or painting.

4. Consider Professional Support

If needed, and if feelings of anxiety or panic become overwhelming, seek assistance. A health professional can always be beneficial. Therapists can offer personalized coping strategies tailored to meet your needs, as we are all different in what triggers our anxiety.

5. The Inevitable – Keeping in Touch

Even as a mental health writer, I can be better at this one. Having ties with friends and family can ease stress and worry. Interacting regularly can shift our focus away from the constant stream of negative news.

In the end, while staying informed is important, it’s also vital to strike a balance in how we consume news. Recognizing the signs of scrolling through distressing content and taking proactive measures to lessen its impact can help prevent the development of more severe anxiety issues and panic attacks. The world has changed, and mental health is important, so by being mindful and adopting coping strategies, we can safeguard our well-being during these challenging times (no matter where we are located.)

By being aware of how our media intake affects our health, we can navigate the age without falling prey to its negative aspects. Remember, it’s completely fine to unplug for the sake of your well-being.

Charles Watson is a freelance blogger.

Returning To Work After A Long Time Away And Work Mental Health

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While we might think that everyone is a buttoned-down professional, everyone has their own relationship to their work. But what about returning to work after a long time away? Maybe you’ve been on maternity leave, have suffered an illness, been struggling with mental health, or have been off work for a variety of reasons.

However, it’s true that settling back into the regular working cycle is often a form of mental health and self-care in itself. This is because work is hard, as is balancing a job around personal priorities. As such, it’s important to get out there, to make the right preparations and to believe you can do it. The secret is that you really can, even if you had to fight against your previous employer thanks to their lack of labor law compliance tracking.

With that in mind, let’s discuss how to brace yourself for a return to work, even after a long time away.

Plan Ahead For Your Transition

Your employer likely knows that you have a period of unemployment in the past, and may have asked you about it. If you were candid about it and still gained the job, your employer will likely understand. For the first couple of weeks, you might ask to do staggered days or part-time shifts, then slowly move into full-time. It can’t hurt to ask.

Alternatively, you might integrate a full month of regular 9-5 work to onboard, and then consider remote working from that point on. Planning ahead for your transition, making these requests, or asking for any appropriate support measures can be key. For example, perhaps you need to visit your physiotherapist once a week for mobility assistance. Laying this all out on the table is healthy, because you have nothing to be ashamed of, and reasonable provisions must be made for you (as they legally ought to be for anyone who experiences a personal condition or disability).

Refresh Your Skills & Knowledge

Even the most capable professional can feel rusty in their skills after a period away, as work isn’t like riding a bicycle, it takes a little adjustment period to feel your best. As such, you might ask to review certain work materials before you start, such as the company structure, role boundaries and parameters, and specific preparations to make.

In some cases, you may have the tools to play around with before you start. If you’re working in the content production section of a marketing department, you might focus on Premiere Pro revision or editing software understanding once more, checking out the new updates to see what has changed. This way, you arrive at the new place a little sharper and more practiced.

Get Into The Daily Schedule Beforehand

You may have a couple of weeks before you start work again, which is a great practice period for getting used to your new schedule. You might begin waking up early in the morning and going to bed early, to help your body clock adjust to the new normal. You could even take the commute a few times to make sure you relax into it, and don’t have to worry about being late for your first day. If taking the train during rush hour or figuring out the best route to drive, that can give you great peace of mind. If you are struggling with your mental health, definitely reach out for support.

Moreover, you might prepare your lunch the night before just to get into the habit, or purchase your train tickets set to be valid by a certain date. Getting into the swing of things allows you to avoid feeling tired out or a little shocked when you settle back into work. You don’t want to wake up for your first day tired, irritable, and hungry, but energised and ready to get started. If you have work anxiety, its OK speak to a trusted friend, family member or therapist and seek support.

Don’t Try & Reinvent The Wheel

Most people like to give a good impression as they turn up to a new job for the first time, but that doesn’t mean you have to become the employee of the year in the first week. Just take it easy, and follow the onboarding plan. That’s all you have to do to begin with. Sure, you might be involved in new meetings, but you don’t have to lay out a large vision or plan just yet. Sure, you might be an integral part of the team, but you don’t need to take everyone’s work on immediately. 

It takes time to adapt to a new workplace, and any manager worth their salt understands that. This is also a period to ask as many questions as possible, even if they seem silly on the surface. After all, if you don’t ask now, when will you? Moreover, if you’re a little rusty, don’t be afraid to admit that and slowly sharpen your skills. You don’t have to put every insecurity out there of course, but don’t feel like you have to be perfect, because that’s the quickest way to make a mistake.

Manage Stress & Anxiety Responsibly

It’s natural for people to feel a little stressed at work, and if you have anxious feelings, a new job is fertile ground for them to surface. But you can manage your anxiety with care. You might use supplements to help you (consult a doctor first), and this could include valerian root which is know to deal with mild stress, or ashwagandha, a herbal blend known to relax. Use what works for you and is approved by your doctor, and if advised against taking it or if they clash with any medications you take, make sure to stay well clear. Seeing a therapist can also be helpful.

Moreover, breathing exercises, good sleep schedules and hygiene, and the willingness to take each day at a time can help you feel more relaxed in no time. The first few weeks can be worrying, but sooner rather than later you may begin to feel at home.

With this advice, you’ll be certain to brace yourself even after a long absence preceding your return to work. 

This article was written by a freelance writer.

Mental Health Care In Schools Resources- with Twinkl

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I am delighted to be collaborating with Twinkl on their mental health resources for children in schools.

Twinkl say , ‘We must recognise the need to improve understanding of children’s mental health. A person’s mental health is determined by a complex cocktail of different factors interacting. Some of these factors come from a person’s biology, while others come from external factors. Further complicating things, young children don’t always have a full understanding of why they feel they way they do. They can also be reluctant to talk about it, which only adds to the challenge if you’re a teacher trying to support good mental health care at your school. Ultimately, though, if you have concerns that one of your students is struggling with something related to mental health, you should report your concerns to the appropriate authority.’

Twinkl creates resources for teachers and their students, to provide excellent mental health education. This includes resources such as a morning physical and mental health check in, mental health discussion cards, mindfulness colouring pages, and the emotions iceberg to help children understand their feelings.

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Sometimes children come to school unable to express their emotions or what is going on at home. That’s why its so important for teachers to use these tools to help children at school.

Click here to look at the amazing resources and read this blog by Twinkl.

This is an unpaid collaboration with Twinkl.