World Bipolar Day 2024

Today is World Bipolar Day and its a day where we raise awareness globally about living with bipolar disorder and battling social stigma

When I had my first depressive and manic episodes in 2004; I was a teenager and had no idea what was happening to me. I was helped not only by family support (my dad was diagnosed 4 years before me) but also by some amazing psychiatry health professionals (shout out to Dr Mark Berelowitz at the Royal Free and the team at the Priory North London).

Bipolar changed my life as a young person in both good and difficult ways. It made me stronger; more resilient and more empathetic. But it also made me depressed, manic; anxious and fearful. There were times where I was scared of my own brain and didn’t know where bipolar started and Eleanor ended.

20 years later, I take daily medicines and engage in therapy and I go long periods between episodes due to finding the right medications. This is my own experience and some people with bipolar rapid cycle or have more regular episodes.

Remember it’s ok not to be ok but reach for support and never give up. There is a future and a way forward. I will keep talking about bipolar to help others and raise vital awareness and funds for our condition. Please also support charities like Bipolar UK and have a read of my book Bring me to Light.

Teaching Resilience to Teen Girls in a Challenging World by Dr Hannah Yang.

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Today’s teen girls are growing up in a time that’s very different from when their parents and grandparents were young. They’re surrounded by new technology and social media that consistently exposes them to unrealistic beauty standards, cyberbullying and constant comparison to others.

This is why it’s so important for educators and parents to teach teen girls resilience – the ability to cope with challenges, bounce back from failures, and develop a strong sense of self-worth. This will then boost their mental health.

Challenges Encountered by Teenage Girls During Adolescence

The path to adulthood for adolescent girls is often lined with various challenges that significantly influence their development. While each girl’s experience is unique, there are some common struggles they frequently encounter:

Regular Use of Social Media

Building connections with family and friends is crucial for individuals of all ages. Social media has revolutionised the way we maintain these relationships, particularly over great distances. However, this constant online presence has a downside.

Many teenagers find themselves grappling with the pressure to maintain a certain persona on these platforms. Influenced by the glorified lives of young celebrities and popular influencers, as well as the need to keep pace with peers, this pressure can take a toll on their self-esteem and lead to a skewed perception of themselves.

Expectations From Friends and Family

The role of education in developing an individual’s skillset is undeniable. However, the stress of excelling academically, often influenced by lofty expectations within the family, can create significant strain on teenagers’ mental health. Comparing themselves to their peers, parents, or siblings sets high standards that can be challenging to meet.

If academic pressures aren’t managed well, they can harm a teenager’s self-esteem, particularly when they don’t meet their own expectations. It’s important for teenage girls to realise that their worth and intellect aren’t just measured by their grades or school performance.

Unhealthy Desires to Fit In

Despite the current portrayal of young online influencers as champions of self-expression, the struggle to conform to their ideals can be a significant issue for many teenage girls. Being part of a social circle can offer comfort and a feeling of belonging, which is often an essential aspect of their growth.

However, this pursuit of fitting in can lead girls to sacrifice their own beliefs and values. This may take various forms, such as changing their appearance significantly or adopting harmful eating habits, all in an effort to gain acceptance within a particular social group of peers.

The Importance of Resilience in Overcoming Challenges

Adolescent girls often draw strength from their relationships with friends and family. However, they frequently confront some of their toughest challenges when by themselves. This underscores the importance of resilience, giving them the ability to respond or recover from difficult situations.

Resilience goes beyond simply picking yourself up after setbacks. It encourages learning from these experiences and using them to build character, ultimately coming out stronger from going through various challenges in life.

Overcoming Personal Setbacks

In their formative years, young women often encounter various personal hurdles, including dealing with rejection, managing failures, or going through traumatic life events. If they don’t have strong coping mechanisms, these challenges can have lasting effects, shaping their self-confidence and future relationships.

Developing resilience equips these young women with the necessary skills to confront and overcome these challenging moments, growing stronger and more self-assured.

Learning From Success and Failure

Learning from life’s challenges doesn’t need to be a solo journey. Engaging with a mentor or participating in a support group can offer young girls new insights and different perspectives they might not have considered alone.

In situations that are more complicated, consulting with professionals in settings such as anxiety therapy or trauma therapy can provide a secure space for teens to work through their experiences effectively. These forms of support can also help young women build self-awareness of how their experiences may be having a lasting impact on their mental health while also discovering helpful coping mechanisms.

Improving Decision Making

Young individuals often possess a feeling of invulnerability and belief that they have all the answers. This combination of perceived invincibility and limited experience can result in hasty, impromptu choices, some with lasting impacts.

Teen girls who focus on building their resilience are more inclined to consider the long-term implications of their actions. They become experienced at evaluating the advantages and disadvantages beforehand, leading to wiser choices and avoiding potential mistakes.

Begin Cultivating Resilience Today

Developing resilience isn’t a one-off task – it’s an ongoing journey that demands persistence and dedication. By actively engaging in resilience-building activities and learning from both their successes and setbacks, young girls can cultivate effective coping mechanisms that will benefit them throughout their lives and help their mental health.

This article was written by Dr. Hannah Yang.

Visionary and healthcare entrepreneur by passion, Licensed Psychologist by training, Dr. Hannah Yang loves creating new possibilities in the world of mental health and wellness. Dr. Yang established Balanced Awakening in 2015 as a niche psychotherapy practice for women. As Balanced Awakening flourishes in Chicago, and soon Miami, she also loves to tap into her passion for design and Feng Shui to create fabulous environments for herself, her team, and clients.

5 Valid Reasons For Not Becoming a Mother

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Women that don’t have children will often be on the receiving end of the big question of when they’re going to start having children. But, there are some women who simply don’t want to have children, and all of them are extremely valid. However, some don’t understand this concept, and if you’re wondering why someone would ever feel like that, you’ve come to the right place. While no woman should ever have to explain herself, we’re going to explore some of the reasons why a woman wouldn’t want to become a mother.

Health problems

For some women, the choice to have children may be taken away from them due to health concerns. It might be that they can’t have children because of their health, or it might even be that becoming pregnant could endanger their health. And, while there are many avenues when it comes to having children, such as surrogacy or adoption, some women would simply prefer to carry their child themselves. When this isn’t possible, they may then choose to not have children at all.

A painful history

Sadly, some women will have a difficult or painful history that might put them off the idea of having children all together. It might be that they’ve grown up with abusive parents and don’t want to make the same mistakes. Or, it could be that they’ve been through something extremely traumatic like rape, and would rather not bring that kind of history into their children’s lives, especially if they experienced a life long injury because of it. Instead, they may speak with a sexual offence solicitor and bring the offender to justice, and then move on with their lives.

They don’t want to bring a child into this world

Every person thinks about this at some point or another, and some women will choose not to bring a child into this world if they don’t believe they can provide them with a safe and happy upbringing. Others may look at the world, citing the sense of war, environment and poverty as a reason to question whether it’s a good idea to bring a child into this world.

Giving up a social life and less freedom

Another concern that some women have and choose not to give up is their social life or freedom to travel. While times have changed compared to, say, fifty years ago, it’s still common for the mother to stay at home with the child while the partner goes out to work. While it’s not impossible to have a social life when you’re a mother, it’s certainly not as easy. And, for some, this plus freedom to live the life they want to live is simply not something they want to give up.

Career priorities

Women have just as much of a right to have a successful career as men do, and some women choose to prioritise their career over having children. A career can sometimes take decades to climb and some don’t want to have time off to have children and juggle their work.

This article was written by a freelance writer.

What is Trichotillomania and How Can You Treat It?

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Trichotillomania is a condition where you have an uncontrollable urge to pull out your own hair. This is usually hair from your scalp but may also involve other areas of your body such as your eyelashes, eyebrows, genital area, legs, armpits, or face. Pulling out your hair may help to relieve feelings of stress or anxiety. It is also known as “trich” or TTM. 

What are the symptoms of trichotillomania?

Symptoms of trichotillomania vary from person to person. They may be automatic, meaning you pull out your hair without being aware that you are doing it; for example when you are studying, reading, or watching TV, or focused which involves hair-pulling on purpose to relieve anxiety or stress.

Hair-pulling is usually done in private, and many people with trichotillomania feel ashamed or embarrassed about their condition and try to hide it from others. It is commonly accompanied by other behaviours such as biting your nails, picking your skin, or chewing your lips or cheeks.

Symptoms of trichotillomania may include: 

  • Frequent, repeated episodes of pulling out hair from your scalp or other parts of your body 
  • Increased tension before pulling out your hair, followed by a feeling of pleasure or relief afterwards
  • Visible hair loss, thinning or bald areas on your scalp or other parts of your body
  • Irritated or sore skin around the area 
  • Damage to your hair follicles
  • Rituals such as pulling out specific types of hair, following the same steps or pulling out your hair in certain patterns
  • Playing with pulled-out hair, such as rubbing it across your lips or face, biting, chewing, or eating pulled-out hair
  • Repeated failed attempts to stop hair-pulling 
  • Avoiding situations where people might find out about your hair-pulling such as sleepovers, visiting hair salons, swimming, or sexual relationships 
  • Problems or conflict with family and friends as a result of your hair-pulling
  • Pulling fibres from blankets and clothing or hair from pets or dolls

What causes trichotillomania?

The cause of trichotillomania isn’t fully understood. It may be a way of dealing with stress, strong emotions anxiety, a habit, or a hormonal or chemical imbalance. Trichotillomania may also be genetic and often runs in families. 

What should I do if I have symptoms of trichotillomania? 

If you have symptoms of trichotillomania, remember that you are not alone, and help is available. Make an appointment to see your GP. 

How is trichotillomania treated? 

The main treatment for trichotillomania is a type of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) called habit reversal training. Habit reversal training aims to replace a bad habit with something that isn’t harmful, and may involve:

  • Keeping a journal of your hair-pulling to identify triggers and learning how to avoid them
  • Learning to replace hair-pulling with another action that isn’t harmful, like squeezing a stress ball
  • Getting support from loved ones and support groups 

Some self-help tips for trichotillomania that may help include: 

  • Relieve stress by squeezing a stress ball or using a fidget toy 
  • Wear something over your hair such as a bandana or a tight-fitting hat
  • Cut your hair short
  • Exercise
  • Practice relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation or take a soothing bath to ease stress or anxiety
  • Exercise
  • Put plasters on your fingertips

Other possible treatments for trichotillomania may include: 

  • Acceptance and commitment therapy — can help you learn to accept your hair-pulling urges without acting on them
  • Cognitive therapy — works by changing negative thoughts and beliefs, and learning healthy ways to manage your condition
  • Medication — trichotillomania isn’t usually treated with medication, but you may be prescribed medication such as antidepressants to treat an underlying condition like depression or anxiety. 

Further help and support 

Many people with trichotillomania feel isolated and try to hide their condition from others. Talking to people you trust as well as your GP and joining support groups can help you feel less alone and often helps to reduce your anxiety and hair-pulling. 

For further information, advice, and support on living with trichotillomania, contact:

  • Trichotillomania Support
  • OCD UK
  • Anxiety UK
  • Alopecia UK

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New Children’s Picture Book Announcement and 8 Year Blog Anniversary

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Hi everyone,

I have been quite quiet on here for a while but in the background, I have been working on my NEW self-published children’s picture book. I can exclusively tell you it is called ‘Arabella and the Worry Cloud‘ and will be illustrated by acclaimed artist (and good friend) Shelley Levy.

Here is our journey with Arabella…

In 2019, shortly after my book Bring me to Light was published, I wrote a short story that came into my mind about a little girl called Arabella (aged around 6/7) who had anxiety about lots of things in her life- her homework, her cat dying for example. Arabella is followed around by the Worry Cloud, a cloud who represents all her negative thoughts and worries, who threatens to rain on her. Can Arabella learn how to be ready for the Worry Cloud and replace him with positive and happy thoughts?

As a little girl, I struggled with anxiety. Some of my earliest memories are of being sick in the school lunch room aged 4 every day because I had bad separation anxiety and didn’t want to be around the bigger children. When I was about 7, I was also bullied at school and Sunday school (I was a very sensitive child) and this caused me to panic and not want to attend Sunday school so I was home schooled for a bit. I always have been a worrier. Then aged 15, anxiety reared its head again and I was diagnosed with bipolar as part of a depressive episode. I have lived with worry and anxiety most of my life…and I was born in the 80s and grew up in the 90s, where it was less understood. Though my family were amazing at supporting me.

My aim through writing Arabella is to help children to process their feelings and emotions around anxiety and to help them feel less alone. I hope that this book can be used in classrooms and therapy clinics to help children struggling with anxiety. It is for 5-7 year olds and explains Arabella’s journey with anxiety through the metaphor of finding the light in the dark storm.

The illustrator of Arabella and the Worry Cloud is my good friend, Shelley Levy. Shelley is an incredible artist and she has drawn the illustrations on her Ipad, using software. My vision to Shelley was to use old fashioned illustration, while making it contemporary and she has truly delivered and brought my characters to life. We can’t wait to show you the finished book once it has been formatted and printed and ready for sale! I am self publishing as I had sent it to various publishers including Welbeck and Pan Macmillan but for various reasons, they couldn’t publish it. However, I truly believe in the story and luckily so do others too 🙂

The sign

I knew Shelley was the right person to illustrate my book (she had given us a painting a a wedding gift) and was so thrilled she has come on board. I asked the Universe for a sign. Shelley is a friend of my dad Mike and they had gone to the theatre. At this time, I had put feelers out to Shelley, that I would like her to illustrate the book. A group of school children were sitting in front of them. They asked one of the girls their name and the girl said ‘Arabella‘. I got tingles hearing this as I had asked for a sign and had already written the title of the book (and Shelley was there)! Also, my late Grandpa Harry kept saying before he passed away in 2021, that I should write a children’s book and be the next Enid Blyton (I wish!).

8 Year Blog Anniversary

As well as this exciting project, this blog turned 8 years old on the 1st March and I just want to thank all of you for sticking with me for this long and to every single writer who has written for Be Ur Own Light this year March 23-24. Too many to list all of you but we have covered so many mental health topics and I’m so proud of all we continue to achieve together, to spread important high quality content about mental health.

There will be more about Arabella and the Worry Cloud coming soon, including images- we hope to sell it on Amazon!

Thanks for all the love and ongoing support,

Eleanor

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Navigating Through The Storm: How to Process Your Spouse’s Adultery by Lizzie Weakley.

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Discovering that your spouse has committed adultery (extra marital sex) can be a devastating blow to any marriage. The betrayal, hurt, and confusion can be overwhelming, and it may feel like your world has been turned upside down. One of the most challenging aspects of dealing with infidelity is processing your spouse’s tone of voice. How do you navigate through the storm of emotions and make sense of their words? This blog post will explore some strategies to help you process your spouse’s adultery and move towards healing and understanding.

Take a Step Back
When you first discover that your spouse has been unfaithful, it’s natural to feel a wide range of emotions, including anger, sadness, and betrayal. In the midst of all these overwhelming feelings, it’s important to take a step back and give yourself some time to process everything. Avoid making impulsive decisions or engaging in heated arguments based on your spouse’s tone of voice. Take a deep breath, step away from the situation if needed, and allow yourself some space to calm down before addressing the issue with your spouse.

Seek Support
Dealing with the aftermath of adultery can be incredibly isolating and lonely. It’s crucial to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist who can provide you with a safe space to express your feelings and receive guidance. Talking to someone about your spouse’s actions and how it has affected you can help you gain perspective and clarity on the situation. Remember that you don’t have to go through this difficult time alone. You may also want to seek legal support from a divorce lawyer if you’re considering divorce. 

Practice Active Listening

When confronting your spouse about their adultery, it’s important to practice active listening. This means truly listening to what they have to say without interrupting or jumping to conclusions. Try to understand their perspective, emotions, and reasons behind their actions. By actively listening, you can create a more open and honest dialogue with your spouse, which is essential for healing and moving forward.

Set Boundaries
Processing your spouse’s adultery may require setting boundaries in your relationship. It’s important to establish clear boundaries that will help rebuild trust and ensure that both you and your spouse feel respected and heard. This may involve limiting communication, taking a break from the relationship, or seeking professional help to work through the issues together. Setting boundaries can help create a more secure and healthy environment for both partners to address the infidelity and its consequences.

Focus on Self-Care

Dealing with the aftermath of adultery can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being. It’s crucial to prioritize self-care and focus on activities that bring you comfort and relaxation. Whether it’s taking a walk, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in a hobby you enjoy, make sure to take care of yourself during this challenging time. Remember that you deserve love, compassion, and kindness, especially when processing your spouse’s adultery.

Processing your spouse’s adultery can be an incredibly difficult and painful experience. It’s important to give yourself time to heal, seek support from loved ones, and practice healthy communication strategies to navigate through this challenging time. Remember that you are not alone in this journey, and there is hope for healing and rebuilding trust in your relationship.

By taking care of yourself, setting boundaries, and practicing active listening, you can move towards understanding and forgiveness, whether that leads to reconciliation or separation. Stay strong, be kind to yourself, and trust that you have the strength to overcome this obstacle in your marriage.

This article was written by Lizzie Weakley.

5 Ways How Working Remotely Can Benefit Your Mental Health by Breanna Howell

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People are embracing working remotely; even tech companies are allowing their employees to decide whether they want to work from home indefinitely. There are several advantages of working remotely compared to working in offices, in person, but most importantly, remote work is valuable to your mental health. Here are five ways that working remotely can benefit your mental health.

1.   Flexibility and Work-Life Balance

When focusing on work, other aspects of life often end up neglected unless you have a healthy work-life balance. To be content and excited about work, employees also need leisure time to connect with their loved ones and pursue other talents and interests. Based on the time constraints, this becomes challenging with in-person work. Luckily, it is easier to find a balance when working from home; there is more time with family, and with proper management, more leisure time to pursue other interests.

If working conditions are more flexible, staff can find a healthy and effective work-life balance. Being able to work while still having a personal and social life makes them happier and improves their mental health. That is why more and more companies opt for time and attendance solutions to help their employees have a better work-life balance.

2.   Reduced Commute Stress

The daily commute is the least favourite part of a job for employees. Whether private or public transport, a lot of time is spent on the roads and you have to deal with traffic and overcrowding as everyone is in a hurry to get to their workplace. Thanks to remote work, you don’t have to worry about waking up early to beat traffic; simply prepare and start your day. You even have more time to establish an effective morning routine.

Commuting daily can take a toll on you, making you anxious and increasing your stress. You have to wake up early every day and deal with other people rushing to get to work on time. Working from home gives you a reprieve, allowing you to rest, have a good night’s sleep, and avoid traffic and congestion, which is a win for your mental health.

3.   Customisable Work Environment

With the traditional work setup, you get a designated space at the office, work with the same people, and have the same routine daily. You can also get interrupted by colleagues or have managers looking over your shoulders. The monotony and lack of freedom can negatively affect your outlook on life, sometimes even making you indifferent towards your job. Imagine working in your living room, your favourite cafe, or on the seafront. Being able to customise your space makes remote work exciting because it is not predictable; you can finally look forward to the day.

The power to control where and when you work makes you more productive because you are more relaxed and excited about your day. You can customise your workspace however you want, and that makes you happy and fulfilled, which is recommended for your mental health.

4.   Increased Autonomy

One of the advantages of working from home is that the staff gets the freedom to structure their day. Everyone knows what works best for them and can easily decide when and where they are more productive. Instead of a strict and stressful routine, you get the flexibility to choose, which has a massive positive impact on your work and overall well-being.

Autonomy allows you to prioritise the important while scheduling other activities that matter to you. Having control gives you peace of mind, calms you down, and makes you more productive, positively impacting your mental health.

5.   Opportunities For Healthier Habits

Between the daily commutes and extended office hours, there is little or no time for exercising, cooking, and eating healthy meals. Establishing a morning exercise routine becomes challenging, and many rely on calorie-rich snacks to help get them through the day. Fortunately, working from home gives you enough time to work out, cook proper meals, and develop healthier habits.

Eating healthy and exercising have a positive and lasting impact on your mental health. Being healthier can (along with other medical treatments) help issues like depression, ADHD, anxiety, memory loss, insomnia, and other illnesses that affect your productivity.

Conclusion

High stress levels are common in the workplace. There is quite a lot to deal with, from hectic daily commutes to strict schedules and a lack of time to pursue other interests and connect with loved ones. Before all these take a toll on your mental health, it is crucial to consider working from home. This way, you don’t have to worry about commuting, and you can customise your work environment and lead a healthy, happy life.

Breanna Howell is the public relations specialist at Claremont Diamonds living her dream of promoting positive public awareness of the company. As a freelance blogger and mom of two millennials, she’s also passionate about providing inspiration and support to everyone on their journey to a fantastic marriage.

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5 Benefits Of Rehab And Why you Shouldn’t Delay Treatment by Lizzie Weakley

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Drug and alcohol addiction can take a toll on your mind, body, and soul. It’s not easy to overcome addiction, but it’s never too late to start your journey to recovery. Rehab centres provide ample opportunities and resources for people struggling with addiction. Unfortunately, some people delay treatment because of fear, uncertainty, denial, or other valid reasons. Delaying treatment can lead to dire consequences, such as chronic health issues, financial problems, relationship issues, and even death. This blog post outlines the top 5 benefits of rehab and why you shouldn’t delay treatment.

Sense of Community

Rehab gives you the opportunity to surround yourself with people who are supportive, understanding, and empathetic to your situation. It helps to know that you are not alone in your struggle and that there are other people who genuinely care about your recovery. Being a member of a recovery community can help provide accountability, social connection, encouragement, and motivation to push through the tough times. It’s easier to navigate the journey to recovery when you have the support and guidance of others who have gone before you.

Professional Support

Rehab centres have trained and experienced professionals who can assist you in your recovery journey. From therapists and counselors to medical doctors and holistic practitioners, these professionals can help you optimise your physical, mental, and emotional health. They can provide personalised treatment plans, medication-assisted therapy, holistic therapies, and other useful resources to help you achieve your recovery goals. Going to a rehab centre gives you access to evidence-based treatments that have been proven successful in addiction recovery.

New Habits take time to form, but being in a rehab center gives you the chance to create healthy habits and routines. Repetition leads to new neural pathways, which eventually leads to new habits that are sustainable and beneficial for your recovery. You learn things like healthier coping strategies, better communication skills, mindfulness techniques, and relapse prevention skills. Through rehab, you can learn how to retrain your brain to respond to situations in ways that are not harmful to you or others.

Safe Environment

Rehab provides a safe and secure environment that gives you fewer opportunities to relapse. Being in a controlled space helps minimize distractions, triggers, and temptations that can hinder your progress. You’ll have the chance to focus solely on your recovery without the distractions of daily life. Moreover, rehabs help keep their clients accountable to themselves and others. As such, being in an accountable and safe environment can help set the foundation for success.

Self-Identity

People who struggle with addiction often lose sight of their self-identity and what makes them unique. Being in rehab can help rediscover who you are and what you stand for. You’ll have the chance to uncover your strengths, talents, passions, and goals. You’ll be able to reflect on your life and identify what led you down the path of addiction in the first place. By discovering your true self, you’ll be better prepared to cope with any challenges that may come your way.

Seeking treatment for addiction is daunting, but the benefits of rehab are worth the effort. Taking the first step towards recovery can give you a chance to regain control over your life. The sense of community, professional support, formation of new habits, safe environment, and rediscovery of self-identity are just some of the benefits of going to rehab. Don’t delay treatment; the sooner you start your recovery journey, the sooner you’ll be on your way to living a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life.

This article was written by Lizzie Weakley.

10 Bad Habits That Can Affect Your Mental Health by Caryl Ann Mason

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Today, I want to talk about something that is near and dear to my heart – mental health. I believe that taking care of our mental well-being is just as important, if not more important, than taking care of our physical health. And one thing I’ve learned in my wellness journey is that it’s easier to work on your mind if your life isn’t ruled by bad habits that affect your mental health.

You see, bad habits can really take a toll on our mental well-being. Whether it’s staying up too late, eating unhealthy foods, or procrastinating on important tasks, these habits can create a negative cycle that affects our mental state. And if we don’t address these bad habits, they can become deeply ingrained in our daily routines, making it even harder to break free from them.

Let’s talk about the habit of procrastination. We’ve all been there – putting off important tasks until the last minute, only to feel overwhelmed and stressed out when the deadline approaches. This kind of behaviour can lead to increased anxiety, decreased self-esteem, and even feelings of guilt or shame. It’s a vicious cycle that can really take a toll on our mental health.

Another bad habit that can affect our mental well-being is the habit of negative self-talk. It’s so easy to fall into the pattern of criticizing ourselves or doubting our abilities. But this kind of negative self-talk can really impact our self-esteem and confidence, making it harder to believe in ourselves and our potential.

We can’t forget about the impact of unhealthy lifestyle habits on our mental health. Poor nutrition, lack of exercise, and not getting enough sleep can all contribute to feelings of fatigue, irritability, and overall lower mood. It’s amazing how much of a difference taking care of your physical health can make on your mental health.

So, what can we do to break free from these bad habits and improve our mental well-being? It’s not always easy, but it’s definitely possible. 

I’m going to share 10 bad habits that can affect your mental health, and offer tips and insights on how to break free from these habits in order to improve your overall wellbeing.

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1. Procrastination: The Thief of Mental Peace

Procrastination is a common habit that can greatly affect our mental health. 

Putting off important tasks can lead to increased anxiety, stress, and feelings of guilt. 

Overcoming procrastination involves breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps, setting clear deadlines, and creating a conducive work environment.

2. Negative Self-Talk: The Mind’s Worst Enemy

Negative self-talk can be detrimental to our mental well-being. 

It chips away at our self-esteem and confidence, leading to self-doubt and decreased motivation. 

Practicing self-compassion, affirmations, and surrounding yourself with positive influences can help combat negative self-talk.

3. Unhealthy Eating Habits: Fuelling Your Body and Mind

Poor nutrition can directly impact our mental health. 

Consuming excessive sugar, processed foods, and unhealthy fats can lead to mood swings, fatigue, and decreased cognitive function. Prioritising a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can improve mood and overall well-being.

4. Lack of Physical Activity: Move to Improve

An inactive lifestyle can contribute to feelings of lethargy, low energy, and heightened stress levels. 

Incorporating regular physical activity, even in small increments, can release endorphins, reduce stress, and boost self-esteem. 

Engaging in activities you enjoy can make fitness enjoyable and beneficial for mental health.

5. Sleep Deprivation: The Silent Saboteur

Inadequate sleep negatively impacts mental health, leading to irritability, reduced focus, and increased anxiety. 

Establishing a consistent sleep schedule, creating a relaxing bedtime routine, and ensuring a comfortable sleep environment are essential for improving sleep quality and mental well-being.

6. Excessive Screen Time: Digital Detox for the Mind

Overindulging in screen time, especially before bedtime, can disrupt sleep patterns and contribute to feelings of restlessness. 

Setting boundaries for screen time, engaging in offline activities, and practicing mindfulness can help reduce the negative impact of excessive screen exposure on mental health.

7. Isolating Yourself: Connection for Mental Resilience

Isolation can intensify feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression. 

Cultivating meaningful relationships, seeking social support, and participating in group activities or communities can provide a sense of belonging and support for mental well-being.

8. Overcommitting: The Stress Accumulator

Taking on too many responsibilities can lead to chronic stress, overwhelm, and burnout. 

Learning to set boundaries, prioritise tasks, and practice self-care can prevent the detrimental impact of overcommitment on mental health.

9. Avoiding Mental Health Care: Ignoring the Inner Voice

Neglecting mental health needs can exacerbate underlying issues and prevent access to potential support and treatment. 

Seeking professional help, engaging in self-care practices, and prioritising mental health check-ins can promote emotional well-being and resilience.

10. Ruminating on the Past: Breaking Free from Mental Anchors

Constantly revisiting past mistakes or unfavourable events can perpetuate feelings of regret, shame, and negative emotions. 

Embracing mindfulness practices, focusing on the present moment, and reframing negative thought patterns can help break free from the cycle of rumination and improve mental resilience.

Our daily habits play a significant role in shaping our mental well-being. By addressing and modifying these habits, we can embark on a journey towards improved mental health and overall happiness. 

Remember, small changes in habits can lead to profound positive effects on our mental state. I hope this post serves as a reminder to nurture healthy habits that support your mental well-being. 

So, let’s work on breaking free from those bad habits that are holding us back and focus on creating a healthier, happier, and more positive mindset. Our mental health is worth the effort!

Caryl Ann is a blogger at https://theboredhousewife.co.uk