In 2015, Alexander Walton had an idea. It was an emotional short story that he wrote, then placed in brightly coloured envelopes and randomly distributed across the city he lived in. Each one also contained a small gift: a symbol of hope. He called this project Find My Story and through the support and kindness of others, it expanded across the globe.
Over the next five years there were three stories in total. Hundreds of volunteers. Thousands of envelopes. And an avalanche of profound and moving responses from people who had found one of these envelopes, and had the curiosity to open it.
This experience was the inspiration for The Kind Mind Method and ultimately changed the author’s life in ways he never could have expected. He continues to advocate kindness and positivity through his books and ongoing projects.
(image: Alexander Walton)
For years, scientific studies have continuously demonstrated a clear link between kindness and mental wellbeing. Throughout that time, there has never been any unified mechanism to harness this power. Until now.
Do you feel as if you are stuck inside your own head? Does worry stop you engaging with the wider world? Do you sometimes feel helpless to stop negative thoughts? The Kind Mind Method is a simple thought process that will allow you to embrace a positive mindset in everything you do. It will change you in ways you never could have imagined and snap you into the moment like nothing else you have tried.
Built upon proven scientific principles and leveraging the power of kindness, Alexander Walton will explain how you can benefit from this profound change. Through clear steps and real-world examples, he will guide you through its adoption and ongoing usage. Along the way, he will examine how this approach provides you with a true alternative thought that you will actively want to pursue. And by the end of this book, you will understand how it can offer a structured mechanism to deal with any situation, and watch as you seamlessly embrace a different thought. A better thought. A kinder thought.
Here were just some responses to the Find my Story envelopes:
Found your story and you have no idea at what time it entered my life and the impact it had.”
“It is impossible to describe how this story made me feel…I will keep this gift on me until I feel I need to pass it on myself.”
“THANK YOU for writing your story, and sending that message of hope out into the world. I needed it so badly and I’ve kept the gift with me ever since. I’ll never forget the feeling of opening your envelope.”
A Christmas carol’s feeling in the belly. Your story is beautiful and your letter found me in a very special time. A time of uncertainty and doubts where this star blowing in the middle of the night was somehow something I didn’t expect anymore. Thank you so much for that.
You can find Alexander Walton on his website and his book is out now.
Embarking on the journey of meditation is akin to entering a profound realm of self-discovery and tranquility. This ancient practice, deeply woven into the fabric of various cultures and spiritual traditions, offers a transformative pathway to inner peace and mindfulness. In this exploration of meditation, you can delve into its fundamental principles and techniques. You may also learn about the many benefits it brings. If you are eager to embark on this contemplative journey, there is much to be gained.
Understanding the Essence of Meditation
Meditation, at its core, is a mental exercise designed to heighten awareness and cultivate a tranquil state of mind. In a world filled with incessant noise and distractions, meditation serves as a sanctuary. This is a space that is meant to silence the ceaseless chatter of the mind. Through various techniques such as focused breathing, guided visualisation, or mindful observation, individuals aim to create a profound sense of calm and presence in the current moment. There’s a reason why meditation has been a part of the human experience since as far back as 5000 BCE.
Getting Started on Your Meditation Journey
Begin by finding a quiet and comfortable space where you can sit or lie down without distractions. Creating an environment that allows you to immerse yourself in the practice is foundational. Once settled, turn your attention inward, focusing on your breath—an elemental meditation technique. Inhale deeply, feeling the air fill your lungs, and then exhale slowly, consciously releasing tension. Alternatively, engage in mindful observation by letting thoughts come and go without attachment, cultivating a non-judgmental awareness of the present moment. Don’t be surprised if a surge of energy during meditation happens — and don’t judge it if it does.
Various Types of Meditation
Meditation is a diverse tapestry, offering various techniques catering to different preferences and goals. Mindfulness meditation encourages being fully present, urging individuals to observe thoughts and sensations without attachment. Transcendental meditation involves repeating a mantra silently, guiding practitioners toward a state of relaxed awareness. Loving-kindness meditation centers around cultivating feelings of love and compassion, often achieved through the repetition of positive phrases. Body scan meditation encourages a mental exploration of the body, identifying and releasing tension to promote both physical and mental relaxation.
Benefits of Meditation
The benefits of meditation are extensive and well-documented, making it a compelling practice for those seeking holistic well-being. Stress reduction stands as one of its primary advantages, with regular practice promoting relaxation and heightened mindfulness. Improved concentration becomes a natural outcome, as meditation serves as a training ground for the mind, enhancing cognitive function and focus. Emotional well-being experiences a positive shift, marked by reduced anxiety, a more optimistic outlook, and increased emotional resilience. The calming effect of meditation often extends to sleep, contributing to improved sleep quality and overall restorative rest.
Challenges on the Meditation Path
While the benefits of meditation are profound, the journey is not without its challenges. Patience becomes a valuable companion, recognizing that meditation is a skill that matures over time. Developing a consistent practice is equally crucial; establishing a routine, even if just for a few minutes each day, allows individuals to experience benefits. Encouraging experimentation with different techniques acknowledges the uniqueness of each individual, encouraging them to discover approaches that resonate with their personal preferences. Incorporating meditation into daily life is a transformative process, one that extends beyond formal sessions. Integrating mindfulness into routine activities, such as mindful eating or walking, becomes a practical and enriching way to extend the benefits beyond the confines of just one daily meditation session.
Final Thoughts on a Transformational Process
Practicing meditation will unlock a special door to the realm of self-discovery and serenity. As one navigates the principles, techniques, and benefits, it becomes evident that the true beauty of meditation lies not solely in reaching a destination but in embracing the ongoing journey toward self-awareness and inner peace. Whether you are a novice or a seasoned practitioner, the path of meditation invites you to explore the depths of your own consciousness and find solace in the stillness of the present moment.
This article was written by writer Miranda Spears.
I wrote it to explain how I turned the darkness that bipolar episodes can bring, into light. And so people reading feel less alone, so stigma can fall. So important to talk about our illnesses once we are better, so that it isn’t so hard to understand.
Living with severe mental illness like bipolar psychosis. mania or suicidal depressions can be very challenging. However, they do not have to be your entire life. For me, medication and therapy over time have helped me. Its different for everyone.
If you would like to read my story or gift it to a friend to help them, please see Amazon or other well known bookshops.
And remember- we are never truly alone although being ill can feel unbearable- hold on to hope if you can:
Addiction is a multifaceted problem that can impact individuals from all walks of life, irrespective of their age, gender, or background. Whether it’s substance abuse, alcohol addiction, or behavioural disorders, seeking help is the first step to recovery. In this article, we will explore five ways to combat addiction and pave the way to a healthier, addiction-free life. Whether you’re personally grappling with addiction or you’re supporting someone on their path to recovery, these insights will provide valuable guidance for understanding and combating addiction effectively.
Seek Professional Help
The journey to recovery from addiction frequently commences with the essential step of seeking professional help. Therapists, counsellors, and healthcare providers play pivotal roles in guiding individuals toward a healthier, addiction-free life. For those dealing with co-occurring mental health and substance abuse disorders, specialised treatment centers, known as dual-diagnosis treatment centers, offer a higher level of care and a tailored approach to recovery. These centers are equipped to assess and address the root causes of addiction, including the often complex interplay of underlying mental health issues.
Build a Support System
In the journey of addiction recovery, building a robust support system is an invaluable asset. Building a support system involves connecting with loved ones and friends or engaging in support communities, like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous (NA). The path to recovery is undeniably challenging, and having a network of individuals who understand and care can make a significant difference.
Sharing experiences and challenges with others who have faced similar struggles can provide a unique bond and a sense of belonging, reducing feelings of isolation and alienation that often accompany addiction. This shared journey toward recovery cultivates a sense of hope and resilience, proving to individuals that they are not alone in their pursuit of a healthier, addiction-free life.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT)
Behavioral therapy (CBT) is a known and highly effective method used in addiction treatment. CBT zeroes in on identifying and transforming negative thought patterns and behaviors intricately linked to addiction. Through collaboration with a therapist, people gain the ability to explore the seated origins of their addiction, which are frequently connected to past events or instances of trauma.
This profound self-reflection is a crucial initial step toward recovery. CBT equips individuals with the tools to challenge and modify self-destructive habits and beliefs, empowering them to break free from the cycle of addiction and pursue a life of lasting sobriety. CBT is not merely a therapeutic intervention; it’s a transformative journey that enables individuals to regain control over their lives, nurturing emotional resilience and self-awareness as they navigate the path to recovery.
Medication-Assisted Treatment (MAT)
Medication-assisted therapy (MAT) contributes to aiding individuals in their quest to conquer addiction. This comprehensive strategy combines counselling and behavioural therapies with specific medications designed to reduce cravings and alleviate withdrawal symptoms. Substances like methadone, buprenorphine, and naltrexone can be prescribed as part of MAT, tailored to an individual’s unique needs. MAT is a significant aid in addressing the physical aspects of addiction, facilitating a more comfortable and effective journey toward recovery. By helping to manage the intense cravings and symptoms of withdrawal, MAT can make the process more manageable and increase the chances of successful, long-term recovery.
Lifestyle Changes and Self-Care
In the pursuit of addiction recovery, the role of lifestyle changes and self-care cannot be overstated. A healthy lifestyle is a cornerstone for maintaining lasting recovery. Incorporating regular physical activity, adopting a balanced diet, and ensuring adequate sleep are fundamental steps in restoring both physical and emotional well-being. These changes not only promote physical health but also contribute to emotional stability, fostering a more robust foundation for recovery. Additionally, self-care practices such as mindfulness meditation, yoga, and stress management techniques play an instrumental role in reducing the risk of relapse.
By nurturing mental and emotional resilience, individuals can better cope with the challenges they may encounter on their journey toward a healthier, addiction-free life. These practices instill the necessary tools to manage stress, anxiety, and other emotional triggers, ultimately enhancing an individual’s ability to make healthy choices and maintain a life free from addiction.
Conclusion
Overcoming addiction is a demanding yet crucial path for individuals battling it and their families. Seeking professional help, building a support system, engaging in therapies like CBT, considering medication-assisted treatment, and adopting a healthy lifestyle can significantly improve the chances of recovery. It’s important to remember that addiction is a treatable condition, and with the right strategies and support, a fulfilling, addiction-free life is achievable.
In 2021, I was hospitalised for the second time in my life, due to an acute psychotic episode as a result of my then-recent diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder (Type One). Hospitalisation is one of the scariest, most unsettling periods of time but – a sometimes – necessary stage to recovery. I was so deep within my psychosis for the first week of my admission that I was quite oblivious to my surroundings and the people I was sharing the space with.
However, when my psychosis started to subside and I began to return to my true self, more free from delusions and mania, I was struck with a strong feeling of not belonging. I felt truly and utterly lost.
My ward was made up of around fifteen other women, with varying diagnosis, in differing mental states and from different walks of life. Yet, somehow I still felt like an outsider.
At first I was trying to think why. Was it because I was a Northerner in a Southern hospital? Was it because I was one of few that was the same ethnicity as myself? Was it that I was younger than most? There were so many factors that could have been the result of me feeling at a loss and not finding belonging.
Ultimately, no one wants to feel like they belong inside a psychiatric hospital. However, I believe there is merit in feeling like you have a place and in finding a sense of belonging helped me to have grounding and a base that wasn’t initially there.
Here are a few factors, of which helped me to find belonging:
Acceptance – A lot of my initial struggle was the complete denial, fuelled mainly by my delusional thoughts, that I wasn’t mentally ill and I was in the wrong place. The acceptance that I was a patient in a place that was designed to help me was a key turning point within my recovery. I belonged and thus was worthy of treatment and a future.
Routine – Although I grappled with feeling like I was becoming institutionalised, I think sticking to the routine of the ward was really important. Asides from the benefits of attending meal times, having the structure meant seeing familiar faces, both staff and patients and having positive interactions.
Involvement – Attending the therapy sessions that were available were so beneficial. My ward had a brilliant occupational therapist and other specialists that would come in to do structured sessions such as music therapy, cooking or yoga classes. Again, I got to see familiar faces and it brought with it a sense of community.
Authenticity – One of my biggest struggles throughout both manic, and depressive periods, is finding it hard to connect to my true authentic self. Reconnecting to myself and allowing myself to just be me meant that I felt more relaxed and at ease.
Finding this sense of belonging in a place where no one wants to belong ultimately gave me the grounding to go forward and look forward to a brighter future.
Katie is a freelance writer who lives with bipolar disorder in recovery and has courageously shared her experiences of being hospitalised here.
She sits nervously clutching her GHD straightened hair. Its meant to look poker straight but her curly waves never seem to look like Avril Lavigne’s hair. Except for that time when her friend tried to tame it for her with straighteners and an iron!
She lives in a bedroom in the family home- half child, half adult, the wallpaper pink with pictures of little bo peep covered with music posters- Destiny’s Child (Beyonce, Kelly and Michelle in their Survivor jungle outfits peer down) and Joss Stone with her nose piercing. She looks up to these women and wishes she could be them, especially Joss, who is only a year or so older than she is. Mariah Carey is another huge influence and she listens to her Daydream and Greatest hits albums on repeat on her CD player, trying to sing like Mariah but failing to hit those notes.
At school, she loves Drama- she loves to perform as different characters and study theatre. She has a wonderful group of friends who she will remain friends with today. She dreams of going to drama school.. and she will achieve her goal!
She is me, aged 16 years old in 2004.
She is ‘baby Ellie’- the teenager who had no idea what was in store for her life or to come. Who should have been free to party, make mistakes, not worry about life. Who should have been discovering life safely but enjoying teen life.
She was given the diagnosis of a severe mental illness, bipolar disorder, when she was still a child.
She struggled with depression, mania and psychosis from the age of 15.
She has been medicated for 19 years (and had changes of medication).
She has been in therapy for longer.
but she survived and thrived.
And she still loves theatre and music and friends (although the GHD’s have been relegated to the back of the cupboard!)
So dear Baby Ellie,
Whatever happens – everything is going to be OK and you will achieve things beyond your imagination- except being able to sing like Mariah Carey.
When I look back at her, I hear the lyrics of the song ‘Looking in’ on Mariah’s day dream album that I used to play….
Massage, the manipulation of muscles and soft tissue, has been used as a therapeutic practice for centuries. From traditional therapies in ancient civilisations to modern practices, massage has continued to prove its efficacy in promoting physical and emotional relaxation, pain relief, and stress reduction. Let us explore the many health benefits that come with getting a massage.
Reducing Stress and Anxiety
Research has shown that massage has a positive impact on both physical and mental wellbeing. One of the primary benefits of massage is its ability to reduce stress and anxiety levels. Massage helps to lower the levels of stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline while increasing the levels of feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin. As a result, getting a massage allows us to feel more relaxed and at ease, improving our overall emotional and mental health.
Promote Better Sleep
Getting a good night’s sleep is essential for optimal physical and mental health. Regular massage therapy can help bring about restorative sleep by relaxing the muscles, increasing circulation, and reducing tension. Studies have shown that massage therapy can help reduce the symptoms of insomnia and other sleep disorders, thereby promoting better sleep.
Relieves Pain
Many of us deal with chronic pain on a daily basis. Massage therapy can be used to relieve pain and discomfort caused by various factors such as muscle tension, injury, or poor posture. Massage improves circulation, reduces inflammation, helps muscles to relax, and stimulates the release of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers. Regular massage therapy can provide long-term pain relief and improve flexibility and range of motion.
Boosts Immunity
Another health benefit of massage therapy is its ability to boost the immune system. Studies show that regular massage sessions increase the production and activity of white blood cells, which play a vital role in fighting off infections and illness. Increased circulation and improved lymphatic flow help the body flush out toxins and improve its overall immunity.
In conclusion, massage therapy is an ancient practice that offers numerous health benefits for both physical and mental wellbeing. From reducing stress and anxiety to improving sleep, relieving pain, and boosting the immune system, regular massage sessions are a great way to promote a healthy lifestyle. If you’re dealing with any of the issues mentioned above or simply wanting to relax and unwind, schedule a massage appointment today. Your body and mind will thank you!
This article is by freelance writer Hannah Whittenly.
Discover Proven Therapy Methods to Transform Your Life
Sometimes something as small as getting stuck in traffic, running late, or having technical issues during a video call can send your day spiralling. Recovering and taking the reins on your stress and anxiety takes effort! While therapists, psychologists, and counsellors are known for their expertise in helping others navigate these struggles, they also employ various life hacks to relieve their own stress and anxiety. Prepare to be amazed as we delve into the hidden world of mental health gurus and uncover the secrets behind their cool, calm, and collected demeanours.
Before we dive in, let’s talk about stress. Counselling specialists Association of Learning believe that stress affects certain people more than others. “You might feel the effects of stress more acutely than the average person,” They shared with Be Your Own Light. “Childhood experiences, genetic predispositions, and support networks all have the potential to affect your ability to process and manage stress.”
But before you go and blame mum and dad, Association of Learning suggests you learn more about the causes of stress and its effect on the mind through online counselling courses. Discover the logic behind your knee-jerk reactions, outbursts, and feelings while learning interesting tips and techniques (like the ones below!) for managing them.
Now that we’ve heard from the experts about how stress affects individuals differently, let’s look at some psychological tricks that can help you handle stress efficiently.
Psychological Hacks
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
If you’re someone who struggles with anxiety and stress, you’re probably familiar with muscle tension. Progressive muscle relaxation (or PMR) is an anxiety-reduction technique from the 1930s that has become a staple in the pursuit of calm. The method includes tensing and relaxing the body’s primary muscle groups in rapid succession. By regularly engaging in PMR, you can train your body to recognise the difference between a relaxed and a tight muscle, and calm your mind.
Here’s a quick, 1-minute PMR routine that you can perform right at your desk:
Sit comfortably with your feet on the ground and your hands in your lap.
Take a deep breath in through your nose and release it through your mouth, letting your shoulders drop away from your ears. Relax your shoulders.
Now, focus on your facial muscles. Begin by scrunching up your forehead and holding it for a few seconds. Feel the tension building up. Now, release and let your forehead smooth out, letting go of any remaining tension.
Move your attention to your jaw. Gently clench by pressing your teeth together. Hold for a few seconds, noticing the tension. Now, slowly release and let your jaw unclench completely.
Bring your awareness to your neck and shoulders. Take a deep breath in, and as you exhale, gently tilt your head to the right, feeling a stretch on the left side of your neck. Hold for a few seconds, then return to the centre. Repeat on the left side.
Take one last deep inhale and exhale, imagining any lingering stress or worry leaving your body and being replaced by serenity and relaxation.
Thought-Stopping
The average British adult has 11 self-critical thoughts every day. These thoughts can range from benign, “I wish I earned more money,” to increasingly upsetting, “I’ll never achieve anything, so why bother trying?” Here’s where thought-stopping comes in. The popular self-control skill is used to combat distressing thoughts, enabling you to focus on ideas that contribute more to your well-being.
If you’re struggling with discouraging thoughts, try this 1-minute thought-stopping practise:
Take a deep breath. In through your nose and out through your mouth.
Notice the unwanted thought and recognise its presence in your mind.
Mentally or verbally say the word “Stop!” in a firm and assertive tone. Imagine it as a strong command to interrupt the thought.
Visualise a red stop sign, see it clearly, and imagine your thoughts coming to a halt.
Replace with a positive thought: Immediately shift your focus to a more positive or neutral thought. It could be a pleasant memory, a calming image, or a positive affirmation. Hold onto the new thought for the remainder of the exercise.
Take another deep breath, ending the exercise by inhaling positivity and exhaling any remaining tension or negativity.
Guided Imagery
Guided imagery requires you to engage all of your senses—smell, sight, touch, taste, and sound—to create a scene in your mind that feels like reality. Unfortunately, you won’t actually be able to sit down to an imaginary Sunday roast, but your mind will imagine each sense, forcing you to focus. Because the mind and body are indivisible, guided imagery can actually cause changes in your heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing patterns.
Try it yourself! Here’s a quick 3-minute guided imagery exercise:
Find a quiet and comfortable place to sit or lie down. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, allowing your body to relax with each exhale. Now imagine yourself in a peaceful garden. Visualise the following:
You are standing at the entrance of a beautiful garden. Picture the gate in front of you, adorned with intricate designs. Open the gate and step into the garden. As you enter, notice the scent of fresh flowers in the air.
Look around and see vibrant colours all around you. Observe the variety of flowers and plants that surround the path you’re on. Take a moment to appreciate their beauty, and let it bring a sense of tranquillity to your mind.
Continue walking along the path, feeling the softness of the grass beneath your feet. Notice the gentle breeze brushing against your skin, bringing a soothing sensation. As you stroll further, you spot a peaceful pond in the distance.
Approach the pond and sit down beside it. Watch as the water reflects the clear blue sky above. Listen to the calming sounds of nature, the gentle rustling of leaves, or the distant chirping of birds.
Now, imagine a small stone in your hand. Hold it and imagine transferring any worries, stress, or negative thoughts onto it. Feel them leaving your body and absorbing into the stone. Release it into the calm water of the pond, watching as the ripples carry away all that no longer serves you.
Take a moment to bask in the serenity of this garden. Feel the sense of peace, relaxation, and inner calm spreading throughout your entire body and mind. Allow yourself to stay in this tranquil place for a few more breaths.
When you’re ready to return, slowly bring your awareness back to your surroundings. Open your eyes and take a final deep breath, feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.
Mindful Observation
At this point in the rise of pop-culture psychology, odds are you’ve heard the term mindfulness before. Mindfulness is a psychological practise in which the patient is brought into full awareness of the current moment, focusing on the here and now and banishing their anxious thoughts. Mindful observation is like the little brother of mindfulness, requiring you to increase awareness of your physical senses: sight, touch, scent, smell, and even taste!
Try this mindful observation practise to redirect your thoughts:
Find a quiet and comfortable space where you can sit or stand without any distractions.
Take a deep breath and close your eyes if you feel comfortable doing so. If not, you can keep them open but maintain a soft gaze.
Begin by focusing your attention on your breath. Notice the sensation of the breath as you inhale and exhale. Feel the breath entering and leaving your body.
Now shift your focus to your immediate surroundings. Start by observing the sounds around you. Pay attention to any noises, whether they are distant or nearby. Allow yourself to simply listen without judgement.
Next, shift your attention to your sense of touch. Notice the sensation of your body against the chair or the ground beneath your feet. Observe any sensations you feel, whether it’s warmth, pressure, or tingling.
Now, slowly bring your attention to your sense of sight. With your eyes open or closed, notice any colours, shapes, or patterns that you can perceive. Observe the play of light and shadows.
Finally, bring your awareness to any scents or smells in your environment. Take a moment to notice any aromas that may be present. Breathe in deeply and acknowledge the scents around you.
Take one last deep breath and slowly open your eyes if they are closed. Allow yourself to sit for a few moments, appreciating the sense of calm and presence you’ve cultivated.
Those are all of the hacks we can squeeze in today; hopefully you’ve been able to gain some insight into how to regain control and manage the stress and anxiety in your life. Remember, sometimes all it takes is a few minutes to re-centre yourself! If you need further help from a doctor or therapist, please reach out for help too.
Mental health issues affect nearly one in four seniors in the UK. Loneliness is often touted as a silent killer among those over the age of 65. This is down to changes in lifestyles, living conditions, health and much more. Isolation is common amongst seniors, contributing to increased mental health issues in people reaching retirement years or older.
If you are concerned your parents might be struggling with their mental health, or you want to avoid them experiencing changes to their life and mental health, there are some things you can do to help them.
Additional Support
If your parents are struggling with a change in their abilities, experiencing changes to hearing and vision or are living with poorer health, getting them some help around the home can help them to live in the same way they are used to without harming their physical and mental health. Being able to live in a clean and tidy home, get support with bathing and dressing or leaving the house can boost their mental health and help them feel more confident getting around. Home care services can be instrumental in offering support to seniors who need a helping hand but still want to live independently.
Frequent Communication
One common thing amongst the older generations is that they frequently say they feel they are no longer an essential part of their family’s life and often feel left out, excluded or forgotten about. This is where mental health can decrease rapidly. You can avoid this happening by continuing to include your senior parents in family life, talking to them frequently, and making sure they know they are wanted, loved and can speak to and meet up with you and the rest of the family.
Communities
There are many different communities and support groups of people reaching senior age, and charities such as Age UK always hold events and have outreach programs in place to support the most vulnerable. Getting your parents out and into a community group, volunteer programme, or simply socialising with those in the local area can help give them a purpose, a reason to leave the house, and a chance to mingle with like-minded others.
Recognise Changes
If you are actively involved in your parent’s life, you will be better placed to notice any changes to their physical and mental health as they occur. They could be there doing their usual routines or activities or skipping meals, or eating more. Or they could be withdrawing from people. If you can recognise changes quickly, you can get your parents the right help, be it medical care, health conditions they are experiencing or mental health support.
Being proactive in your parents’ lives can help you stay on top of their activities, mental health, and how they support themselves so you can get them the proper health and support and ensure their mental health isn’t struggling. Many seniors are reluctant to talk about these types of issues, but by showing you care and are worried about them, you can help them to make the right changes so they can live their retirement years happily and enjoy the rest of their lives.
