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Wedding days are primarily about the love between the two people getting married. But let’s be honest, there’s also another big component of wedding days, and that’s fun. People go to weddings to show their support for a great couple, but they also expect to have a good time.

So if you’re planning on getting married in the foreseeable future, be sure to work on giving your guests the opportunity to have a great time.

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Drinks on Arrival

People will have spent a long time getting ready and travelling to your wedding. So it’s important that they’re given a warm welcome. You can make a selection of drinks available to people when they arrive; this could be champagne, a beer, or a soft drink, so everyone has an option. It’s also a good idea to give people some time to mill around and get to know one another before heading into the venue, so try to put a little bit of space between the arrival time and the beginning of the ceremonies.

Well-Organised

You want your guests to be in a mindset that allows them to have a great time, not thinking about the logistics of the organisation. You can help them by making your wedding day as well-organised as possible. This could include putting on a coach that takes your guests from the centre of town to the venue, hiring a babysitter to look after children, and all-around keeping your guests informed of the order of the day. The better the organisation, the more likely it is that your guests can fully commit to the moment, let their hair down, and have a great time.

All the Food

Is it possible to have a good time when you’re hungry? Probably, but it’s much more difficult. You can put your guests in the mood for fun by ensuring that their stomachs are full. Make some snacks available during the day and, of course, be sure to hire caterers that can produce a delicious and filling dinner. You may also consider having a late-night buffet — people will get hungry, especially if they’ve been dancing for hours.

Bring the Party

The most fun part of the wedding day will, of course, be the party. For this, you’ll need to have a dance floor, some props, and some good music. It’s a good idea to hire a wedding party band to get the party started; once they’re done, it’ll be the DJ’s turn to play those classic wedding party songs that’ll have people on the dance floor all night long.

Lawn/Party Games

Not everyone wants to spend the night dancing. If you’re getting married in the summer, then consider buying some lawn/party games that people can enjoy. They can be really fun, and they’re also fantastic ways for your wedding guests to get to know one another a bit better.

Look After Mental Health

Remember when wedding planning, to always look after your mental health as it can be anxiety and stress provoking. You should try to make sure your guests are looked after too. Simple things like making sure there is not too much alcohol, that your guests have fans or access to air con in hot weather and drinking water, will mean your wedding will go more smoothly and everyone will feel great! Remember to access support from your GP should you need it too.

This article was written by a freelance writer.

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Your wedding day is meant to be a truly special time, a day to celebrate your love with friends and family. Once you’re engaged, you’ll likely find many people want to know what you’re doing for the wedding – with some people expecting a big, showy day, with everyone in your extended family getting an invite.

Weddings are exciting, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you don’t love large social gatherings or find the fuss and fanfare that traditionally comes with the day a little anxiety-inducing. However, the most important thing about your wedding day is that it is right for you and your partner, not what everyone else expects from you. Here, we show you how you can still have a dream wedding day, but keep things calm and sensory-friendly.

Get comfortable with your venue

Often, couples have one chance to view their venue before booking, and then they might only get one visit in before the big day. This is especially true if it’s a popular venue, or you want to get married in peak season. Unfortunately, this can leave you feeling a little unsettled on the day of your wedding, since you aren’t familiar with the space and don’t have your own familiar things around you.

If this is something you’re concerned about, you may want to opt for a less popular venue, or one that you’re already familiar with, such as a local church, hall or even a family home. This will allow you to make several visits before the big day, so that you feel comfortable with your surroundings and can relax and enjoy the moment.

Keep things small- if that’s what you want

Big weddings can come with a lot of noise, talking and a huge amount of people to organise. Keeping things small and only inviting your closest friends will mean that you don’t have as much sensory input to deal with, but it also means they’re likely to respect your needs. If you have any specific requirements, consider communicating this with your guests beforehand, so you can arrive assured that no one is going to cross your boundaries.

Making the decision about your guest list as soon as possible will allow you to speak to people well in advance of the big day, and handle those conversations in the best setting for you, whether that’s written, over the phone or in person.

Consider your outfit

Weddings usually mean wearing a special dress or suit, but sometimes those with sensory issues can find the feel of certain fabrics or seams can cause problems. If this is the case for you, then make sure to find a dressmaker, tailor or clothing brand that you feel comfortable with, so that you’re not distracted by your outfit on the day.

Wear ear plugs

Even with a small number of guests and a quiet venue, there can still be a lot of stimulation if you’re sensitive to noise. Wearing discreet ear plugs can allow you to soften the impact of this noise and enjoy your day without getting overwhelmed. There are plenty of subtle options available, but if you’re worried about them being obvious in your wedding photos, you could take them out for the solo and couple shots, since it’s just likely to be you and your photographer at this time.

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Plan for breaks

When planning your day, work with your venue so that you don’t feel rushed or under pressure at any time. Incorporate plenty of breaks into the schedule, and make sure you leave some time for just you and your partner to soak up the joy after the ceremony. You could go for a walk, or sit quietly in a separate room – whatever you need, speak to your venue to make sure you can get that special time. Not only will this help you deal with any sensory overwhelm, but it’s also just a really lovely way to celebrate together and take your first moments as a married couple.

A calmer day

By carefully planning your day to meet your needs, you can relax and enjoy the wedding planning process. Invite your closest friends and family, raise a glass, and celebrate your love together in a way that is perfect for you.

Clay Reese is a blogger and digital media expert.