(image: Arabella and the Worry Cloud by Shelley the Artist and Eleanor Segall)
Shelley the Artist and I are proud to reveal the cover to our first children’s book written by me, ‘Arabella and the Worry Cloud’.
Arabella is a little girl with lots of worries, represented by the Worry Cloud who comes to see her, taunts her and threatens to rain on her.
Can Arabella with the help of happy thoughts of her family and trusted cat Pickles push the Worry Cloud away? Or will he stay and rain on her forever as her worries grow?
As a little girl myself, I had lots of worries which led to anxiety and panic. Through our book, we aim to help children aged 5-7ish to process their emotions around worry, to talk about anxiety and to try and replace them with positive thoughts.
The book has beautiful illustrations by Shelley the Artist and we can’t wait to share the link to buy it as soon as its live! We will have an ebook and paperback version.
Addiction is so intricate and multifaceted that in the face of extensive scientific research, there are still myths and misconceptions about it that often get in the way of treatment. They cause stigma that keeps people from getting help for fear of being labelled as ‘bad’ or ‘weak’. But, to win the fight against addiction, we have to confront some common misconceptions to create an environment that empowers people and encourages them to get treatment for successful recovery. Here are some of the top misconceptions about addiction:
5 Common Misconceptions About Addiction
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Myth1. Addiction is by choice: If a person is addicted to something, it’s because they chose to be, and it’s their fault.
The truth is that no one chooses to become addicted—addiction is a brain disorder. The American Society of Addiction Medicine describes it as a treatable chronic disease that is a result of the interactions between the brain circuits, upbringing, trauma, environment, and genetics. Heavy and prolonged substance use interferes with the brain networks and increases the likelihood of becoming addicted.
Nevertheless, a choice can influence the recovery journey. The person may choose to seek help dealing with addiction through addiction therapy, exercises, symptoms treatment, and other lifestyle decisions.
Myth2. It just takes willpower to stop: Addiction results from a lack of willpower, if the person wanted to stop using badly enough, they would.
Sadly, a person cannot ‘will away’ their addiction, and it does not result from a lack of willpower or self-discipline. Drugs, alcohol, and other substances produce profound brain changes that alter the natural reward system.
Typically, mental rewards come only after exerting effort, and this takes a while. But, the addictive behavior shortcuts this process and gives the brain pleasure early on. When the brain is used to early results, the person’s self-control and capacity to make good decisions is eroded and replaced with the impulse to engage in rewarding behavior.
The substance-induced impulses are not like the usual urges to eat or drink. They are overwhelming and compulsive impulses whose resolution is only engaging the addiction. It’s the reason why addiction appears irrational in that a person will keep using it even when things are falling apart around them.
Myth3. Tough love compels people with addiction to stop: If you are harsh with the individual, they will understand the seriousness of the issue and feel the need to change.
With addiction, ‘tough love’ is not the answer. Being harsh, insensitive, or indifferent may cause the person to feel unworthy, demoralised, and rejected. It typically produces the opposite results of what was intended.
The better way to address addiction is to take a kind and compassionate approach. The reality is that the majority of people with an addiction are usually contending with other struggles and use addiction to compensate. For example, many people with an addiction struggle with feelings of rejection, and pushing them away with ‘tough love’ only aggravates the underlying problem. However, love, kindness, and support can pull the person closer, address the underlying problem, and start them off on the addiction recovery journey.
Myth4. Addiction does not really go away: An addict will never be truly free. Once an addict, always an addict.
Addiction is a complex condition, and recovering from it takes time. It can indeed be a chronic condition, but even then, the individual can still recover. Addiction is not a life sentence, and there is always hope to get back on a healthy path and live a fulfilling life.
Regardless, it’s normal to have some recovery setbacks. Although it doesn’t happen with everybody, relapsing and returning to substance use after abstaining for some time is normal. But this is not a sign of failure. Instead, it’s an opportunity to discover what is not working in addiction therapy and to restrategize the treatment. Every person is unique, and the relapse provides a chance to understand the unique factors that drove the individual to relapse and helps with formulating strategies to prevent another relapse in the future.
Myth5. You must abstain to recover: The only way to recover is to keep off the substance completely.
The truth is that recovery means different things to different people. Abstinence is only one form of recovery and not the final destination for all people. Moderating use so that substance reliance no longer interferes with a person’s productivity or relationships is also recovery. Some people are only looking to reduce substance use, while others are only looking to use a less harmful substance. From there, these people watch their consumption or wean themselves off, even without treatment.
So, instead of insisting on abstinence or giving a timeline for a complete cessation of use, understand that recovery from addiction is a journey that some reach pretty quickly while others take small steps and a long time to get to the same destination.
Addiction Recovery Can Be Made Easier
Addiction is difficult to resolve, and it doesn’t help that there are many myths and misconceptions surrounding it that further complicate the recovery. But, through education and awareness on addiction and recovery, and showing love, support, and empathy towards the individuals, society can make the recovery journey easier.
Addiction therapy is a particularly useful recovery tool because it sets the individual in an environment where the people and the programs support recovery. Sign up for therapy and start your path to recovery today!
So, you’ve decided to take the reins and guide yourself toward personal growth? That’s great news! Crafting a personal development plan isn’t just about lofty goals; it’s about mapping out your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Think of it as creating a personalised roadmap that highlights both the routes and the scenic stops along the way.
Understand Your Current Situation
First things first: where are you at right now? Take a good, hard look at what you’ve accomplished and where you might be spinning your wheels. It’s all about self-awareness. Do you feel like you’re killing it in some areas but maybe lagging a bit in others? This step is your foundation—it’s all about knowing your strengths and poking at your weak points a bit. Remember, honest self-evaluation is the first step to genuine growth.
Define Clear, Relevant Goals
Now, let’s talk about your goals. And not just any goals—SMART ones. Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-bound. That’s the secret sauce. Whether it’s climbing up the career ladder, enhancing your health, or just learning how to whip up a good meal, knowing exactly what you want to achieve gives you a clear target to hit. Setting these goals will also infuse your daily routine with purpose and direction.
Identify The Skills You Need
Got your goals? Great! Next up: figuring out what skills you’ll need to bag these goals. If you’re aiming for a promotion, maybe you need some extra leadership flair or tech skills. If it’s about health, understanding nutrition or workout plans might be your focus. List what you need to learn, then plan how you’re going to learn it. This planning should also include identifying any potential barriers to your learning and thinking about ways to overcome them.
Allocate Resources And Time
Resources—time, money, tools—it’s what you’ll need to get where you want to go. Planning is key here. Maybe carve out a few hours each week for studying, or set aside some cash for courses or books. Knowing what you have and what you need to get is crucial. Also, consider the less tangible resources like emotional support or professional networks.
Action Plan
Time to break those big dreams down into smaller, bite-sized tasks. Add some deadlines to keep you motivated. If you’re learning a new language, maybe you’re practising daily, chatting with a native speaker weekly, and subscribing to a language app. Each small step should align with your larger goals, creating a path forward. Consider using tools like digital planners or apps that can help you manage these tasks and keep you on track. R
Remember, the key here is consistency; by chipping away at your goals day by day, you’ll build momentum and see tangible progress. Plus, scheduling regular check-ins with yourself to assess the week’s successes and setbacks can keep you honest and adaptable.
Monitor Your Progress
Keeping an eye on how you’re doing is essential. It’s like giving yourself a mini-report card. Are you smashing those targets? Great! Falling a bit short? Time to tweak your plan. This step keeps you motivated and on track. Regular reviews can also help you understand if your goals still resonate with your aspirations or need adjustment.
Be Flexible And Adjust
Here’s the thing: life happens. Your goals and methods might need a quick shuffle as you face new challenges or opportunities. Stay flexible and keep your plan fresh. Flexibility can also help reduce the stress of unexpected changes and keep you resilient against discouragement.
Seek Feedback
Don’t shy away from feedback. Whether it’s from friends, family, or a mentor, a fresh pair of eyes can offer new insights and help you stay the course. Use that constructive criticism—it’s gold! Plus, engaging regularly with your feedback sources can build stronger relationships and open up more support networks.
Incorporate Wellness And Recovery
Taking care of your overall well-being is non-negotiable. If life’s stressors are piling up, it’s vital to incorporate strategies to manage them. Organisations like AUK can be a tremendous help if you’re struggling with addictions or related stress. Remember, a healthy you is a more productive you. Incorporating mindfulness practices into your daily routine can also play a significant role in maintaining your mental health.
Reflect And Celebrate
Take a moment to pat yourself on the back. Celebrate every win, no matter how small. It’s not just about cheering yourself on; it’s about reinforcing the habits that got you there. Celebrating your progress not only boosts morale but also helps anchor your achievements in your mind, reinforcing the behaviours that got you there. Create a ritual around your celebrations—maybe it’s a monthly ’victory dinner’, or writing down accomplishments in a journal. This can help turn reflection into a habit, which not only boosts your self-esteem but also enhances your motivation to continue striving towards your goals. Such moments of reflection allow you to see how far you’ve come, which is essential when the road ahead seems daunting.
Harness The Power Of Visualisation
Imagine yourself succeeding. Really, picture it! This isn’t just feel-good fluff; it’s a powerhouse technique to keep your eyes on the prize. And why not throw together a vision board? It’s a fun, visual reminder of where you’re headed. Using visualisation regularly can effectively bridge the gap between your current state and your goals, making them feel more attainable.
Establish A Support System
It’s easier to climb mountains with a little help. Build a network of cheerleaders who believe in your journey. They can offer a shoulder to lean on, an ear for your plans, or even a nudge when you need it. This support network can become your go-to resource during challenging times or when you need a bit of inspiration.
Stay Curious And Keep Learning
And finally, never stop learning. As you grow, so will your interests and goals. There’s a whole world out there filled with books, courses, and people to learn from. Keep that curiosity alive, and you’ll never stop growing. Staying engaged with new ideas and continuous learning can also prevent stagnation and keep your mind sharp.
A personal development plan isn’t just a checklist; it’s a living, breathing blueprint for your growth. With the right planning, a bit of flexibility, and a whole lot of gumption, you’re well on your way to becoming your best self. Keep pushing, keep learning, and most importantly, keep enjoying the journey!
In 2024, there is a growing awareness of the effects associated with constantly consuming negative news, a behaviour commonly known as “doomscrolling.” Media and constant news updates often fuel this habit of seeking out distressing information. Sadly, this can have serious implications for both physical and mental health.
Recent conversations among health experts have shed light on the link between doomscrolling and the increase in Substance-Induced Anxiety Disorder (SIAD) as well as panic attacks. As someone who writes on mental health, I wanted to delve into this correlation, providing insights and practical tips to protect your health in a world that appears to be in a perpetual state of crisis.
What is the Meaning of Doomscrolling?
Doomscrolling involves the consumption of news. Consumers caught up in this cycle feel compelled always to follow disasters, political unrest, environmental crises, and other distressing events, resulting in prolonged exposure to negative media. Additionally, some may even engage in extended sessions of watching vertical, short-form videos without awareness of the passage of time.
We can admit staying informed is important. However, constant focus on distressing media can affect one’s well-being.
Psychological Effects of Doomscrolling
The brain is naturally inclined to react to threats with a fight-or-flight response—a survival instinct ingrained in our biology throughout history.
However, when the mind is activated by immediate non-physical threats, like distressing news, it can result in prolonged stress. This prolonged state of vigilance can heighten anxiety levels over time potentially leading to anxiety disorders and panic episodes.
However, why is it so addictive to watch distressing news? Well, engaging in doomscrolling triggers the activation of dopamine receptors, which provides short relief from anxiety, despite the eventual worsening of mood.
What is more concerning is individuals often revert to doomscrolling in an attempt to alleviate their distress, perpetuating the cycle of negative emotions.
Link to Substance-Induced Anxiety Disorder
Substance-induced Anxiety Disorder (SIAD) begins to show its ugly face when symptoms of anxiety or panic stem directly from substance consumption, withdrawal, or exposure to substances. Common culprits include caffeine, alcohol, nicotine, and certain prescription drugs.
People who engage in doomscrolling may resort to substances like alcohol or prescription drugs as a coping mechanism for the anxiety and stress triggered by the news they consume. This could establish a cycle where substance use provides relief from anxiety symptoms but later worsens them, possibly resulting in SIAD.
Real World Implications – Panic Attacks
Panic attacks are episodes of fear that may manifest as heart palpitations, sweating, trembling, etc. Sometimes there is even an overwhelming sense of dread and fear of losing control.
For those who are exposed to negative news, unfortunately their threshold for panic attacks may be lower. Substances used to manage this stress can further decrease this threshold, making panic attacks more frequent and intense.
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Tips for Breaking This Habit
Breaking free from the cycle of doomscrolling requires effort and specific strategies. Here are some “practical?” steps you can follow;
1. Establish Strict Time Boundaries
Hold yourself to designated times during the day for checking the news and make a commitment to stick to these schedules. Utilizing apps restricting your access to websites or social media platforms can help you maintain this routine.
2. Customise Your Social Media Content
Take a role in curating your social media feeds by including uplifting content. Follow accounts that share stories or even your city media feeds to create a balanced experience alongside the inevitable negative news we all have to see.
3. Try Healthy Coping Mechanisms
It may be time to hit the gym. Or engage in activities such as yoga or jogging. Better yet, incorporate mindfulness techniques like meditation or diaphragmatic breathing. Finally, find a way to express yourself through creative endeavors like writing or painting.
4. Consider Professional Support
If needed, and if feelings of anxiety or panic become overwhelming, seek assistance. A health professional can always be beneficial. Therapists can offer personalized coping strategies tailored to meet your needs, as we are all different in what triggers our anxiety.
5. The Inevitable – Keeping in Touch
Even as a mental health writer, I can be better at this one. Having ties with friends and family can ease stress and worry. Interacting regularly can shift our focus away from the constant stream of negative news.
In the end, while staying informed is important, it’s also vital to strike a balance in how we consume news. Recognizing the signs of scrolling through distressing content and taking proactive measures to lessen its impact can help prevent the development of more severe anxiety issues and panic attacks. The world has changed, and mental health is important, so by being mindful and adopting coping strategies, we can safeguard our well-being during these challenging times (no matter where we are located.)
By being aware of how our media intake affects our health, we can navigate the age without falling prey to its negative aspects. Remember, it’s completely fine to unplug for the sake of your well-being.
When you’re struggilng with substance abuse and considering detox, chances are you have a clouded view of what this looks like. Images of withdrawal symptoms, sterile hospital beds, and indifferent staff often cause people to fear going into a rehab center. But drug detox doesn’t have to be this way.
Facilities across the USA (and in the UK) like Utah drug detox centers, can provide a safe, supportive, and structured environment to help you navigate this challenging phase. These centres offer the resources and expertise necessary to manage detox. They can help set you up for long-term success.
What are the key aspects of a positive detox environment, and how do they contribute to a successful recovery journey? We’ll discuss those answers here.
Building a Foundation
Research shows that up to 90% of people who relapse after drug detox do so within the first year. Don’t let this number discourage you, though! It can feel daunting, but it also highlights the importance of setting yourself up for success from the very beginning.
Creating a positive environment during detox will improve your chances of long-term recovery. You need a calming, supportive space. Whether you choose your own home, a friend or family member’s place, or a detox program, make sure it’s comfortable and includes healthy, appealing meals that nourish your body. As you heal and cope with withdrawal symptoms, you’ll need proper nutrition.
Surround yourself with a supportive network of people as well. Those who understand your journey and believe in your recovery will be a crucial source of strength.
Address Detox Concerns
Detoxification is often seen as a difficult, uncomfortable experience, and with good reason. Many people entering detox worry about withdrawal symptoms. These effects can range from anxiety and fatigue to nausea, pain, and muscle aches.
But withdrawal symptoms aren’t the only concern. People might also worry about privacy, safety, and the cost of detox. Quality detox programs focus on patient privacy and confidentiality with trained medical professionals to provide a safe, supportive environment.
These types of detox programs can come with a hefty price tag, but many facilities have flexible payment options or work with insurance. Treatment is still within reach for those struggling financially.
Environment
Imagine stepping into a detox program, not with a sense of dread, but with a feeling of comfort. Instead of glaring lights and cold metal, you’re greeted by a warm, home-like environment. Attentive and professional staff are there to support you, easing the anxieties often associated with detox. This welcoming atmosphere can foster a crucial element of recovery: trust.
Trust in your caregivers is essential. When a detox program feels clinical and impersonal, it can create a sense of detachment. You might feel like just another patient to be processed. But a comfortable and inviting space can make a big difference.
This environment allows you to feel safe, valued, and more receptive to the personalised care and guidance offered by your treatment team. The sense of trust empowers you to fully engage in the detox and recovery process, setting you up for a stronger foundation on your journey to a healthier life.
Take the First Step
Detox is a crucial first step on the path to recovery. By prioritizing a safe, supportive, and comfortable environment, you can significantly increase your chances of long-term success.
Remember, you don’t have to face this alone. Reach out to a qualified professional or treatment center today to begin your journey to a healthier and happier life. Many resources are available to support you, and there is no shame in seeking help. Take that first step today — your future self will thank you for it.
In the journey of outpatient rehab, recognising and celebrating each small victory plays a pivotal role in both motivation and recovery. These milestones, no matter how small they may seem, serve as important markers of progress, offering encouragement and a sense of achievement to those on the path to recovery. Each step forward, regardless of its size, can significantly impact the overall success of rehabilitation. This philosophy not only fosters a positive environment but also strengthens the resolve of individuals to continue striving for their ultimate goal of full recovery.
The Power of Acknowledgment
Acknowledging and celebrating small victories may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but it can have a powerful impact on one’s outlook and determination. In outpatient rehab, where the recovery journey can be long and challenging, even the smallest progress should be praised and recognized. This acknowledgment serves as a reminder that each step taken is a valuable and meaningful effort towards healing. It also helps individuals to focus on the present moment, rather than dwelling on past struggles or future worries.
Boosting Motivation
In outpatient rehab, motivation is a key factor in achieving successful outcomes. By celebrating small victories, individuals can maintain their motivation and drive throughout the rehabilitation process. Each accomplishment reinforces their determination and propels them forward towards their ultimate goal. When individuals feel recognized and supported, they are more likely to remain committed to the rehabilitation process and push through any difficult moments.
Building Confidence
As individuals progress through theiroutpatient rehab program, each milestone reached builds confidence in their abilities and strength. These small victories serve as evidence that they are capable of overcoming challenges and making positive changes in their lives. With each success, individuals are encouraged to set higher goals and push themselves further. This confidence boost can have a lasting impact on their recovery journey and beyond.
Celebrating Together
The power of celebrating small victories is not just limited to the individual in outpatient rehab but also extends to their support system. Family members, friends, and healthcare professionals all play an essential role in providing encouragement and recognition for achievements. By coming together to celebrate each milestone, a sense of community and support is fostered, creating a positive and uplifting environment for the individual in rehab.
Celebrating small victories may seem like a simple act, but its impact on outpatient rehab cannot be underestimated. Each milestone reached serves as a stepping stone towards full recovery and should be recognised and celebrated. By acknowledging these small victories, we can create a more positive and empowering experience for individuals in rehabilitation and help them to achieve their goals with confidence and motivation.
Rianne Hunter is a wife, mother of three, and an independent blogger who writes for a broad range of topics and publishers.
Few trials in life are as demanding or relentless as those rooted in chronic physical pain or emotional trauma. For the young adult grappling with long-term afflictions, navigating through daily life can feel like traversing a battlefield with no map and an unreliable compass.
Seeking Solace in Shared Stories
When the weight of your struggle seems too heavy to bear, one of the most powerful avenues toward comfort and understanding is through storytelling and shared experiences. Whether you’re dealing with the debilitating effects of chronic illness, the fallout from trauma, or a blend of both, realizing you’re not alone can be profoundly liberating.
Joining Support Groups
Surrounding yourself with peers who understand firsthand the turmoil you face can provide a unique and invaluable support system. Consider reaching out to local or online support groups focused on your specific condition or trauma type. Here, you can share your story, glean insights from others’ journeys, and forge connections that transcend your individual pain. When you open up to a circle of understanding listeners, you’ll find that there is collective strength in solidarity.
Creating Community
Online forums and social media groups can serve as modern-day campfires, where you can find solidarity and support among those with similar struggles. From these virtual communities, real friendships and mentorships can blossom, creating a network that uplifts and sustains, even on the darkest of days.
The Healing Art of Expression
When words fail us, sometimes the canvas, the page, or the stage can amplify our voices. The creative process—whether through visual arts, music, writing, or performance—can be an outlet for the unspoken struggle within us. Engaging in art as a form of therapy not only provides an escape; it can also catalyse healing on a deeper, psychological level. Be careful though!
Exploring Therapy Through Art
Art therapy, a form of psychotherapy that utilises creative means to express and process emotions, can be particularly powerful for young adults navigating complex internal landscapes. In a safe and guided environment, you can use artistic mediums to explore memories, release pent-up feelings, and discover new perspectives on your pain.
Finding a Creative Community
Being part of a creative community can cultivate a shared language around your pain that transcends traditional dialogue. Whether you join a local writers’ group, painting class, or theater troupe, immersing yourself in art alongside others can provide catharsis, camaraderie, and a fresh lens through which to comprehend and cope with your experiences.
Professional Partners in Your Personal Battle
With a struggle as intricate and unyielding as chronic pain or emotional trauma, it’s often necessary to call upon specialized professionals who can provide the knowledge and guidance you need to manage and, ideally, overcome your challenges.
Therapy and Counselling
The benefits of therapy and counselling for chronic pain and emotional trauma are well-documented. Contacting a skilled therapy center or counselling office can equip you with tools to address the cognitive and emotional aspects of your condition. Cognitive-behavioural therapy, in particular, has shown efficacy in helping individuals reframe their experiences and manage their pain more effectively.
Seeking Medical Specialists
Chronic pain often requires a multidisciplinary approach. Connecting with pain management specialists, physical therapists, or holistic health practitioners can lead to innovative treatments and strategies for maintaining your well-being. For those contending with trauma, seeking out psychiatrists, psychologists, or trauma-focused therapists can pave the way toward understanding and healing deep psychological wounds.
Navigating Life With a Compassionate Guide
The path to healing and resilience from long-term afflictions is rarely a straight line. Sometimes, having a life coach or mentor—a compassionate and knowledgeable guide—can help you chart a course that aligns with your personal goals and values.
Life Coaches
Life coaches work with clients to identify areas of dissatisfaction, set goals, and make strategic plans to achieve those objectives. While a therapist may look into your past to heal emotional wounds, a life coach can help you focus on the present and future, encouraging you to move forward with intention and purpose, despite your struggles.
The Power of Mentorship
Mentors, too, can be instrumental in guiding young adults through the labyrinth of chronic pain and trauma. Whether personal or professional, a mentor can offer support, share wisdom, and act as a role model for resilience. A mentor’s insight and perspective can prove invaluable as you learn to not just survive, but thrive, despite the weight you carry.
Fortifying Your Internal and External Network
In your darkest moments, it’s crucial to know that there are sources of strength—both internal and external—to which you can turn. These can be practices that you cultivate within, or connections you foster without, that fortify you against the relentlessness of your pain.
The Power of Daily Practices
Mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and relaxation techniques can serve as anchors in the storm of chronic pain or trauma. These practices help you tune into your body-mind connection, fostering a sense of control and calm that is often elusive. Establishing a consistent routine of these activities can help reduce stress, manage pain, and improve your overall quality of life.
Building Resilient Relationships
Cultivating healthy and supportive relationships can significantly bolster your resilience in the face of chronic pain or trauma. Whether it’s family, close friends, romantic partners, or even pets, the unconditional support and love found in strong relationships can act as a wellspring of hope and comfort. Nurturing these connections—through open communication, empathy, and mutual aid—can create a network of resources that sustain you through even the most challenging times.
Finding your way through the intricate labyrinth of chronic pain and emotional trauma as a young adult can be daunting, but it’s not a lonely path. By reaching out to these potent sources of support and understanding, you can begin to unravel the complexities of your experiences and piece together a map that leads to a life defined not by your pain, but by your resilience and triumph.
This article is by Meghan Belnap, freelance writer.
Self-medicating to resolve mental health issues can sometimes leave the door open for substance abuse. A lot of information goes into choosing the right psychiatric medicine, and it is not something you should choose without medical input. To avoid this common problem, here are a few things you should know about self-medication.
The Consequences
Mental and physical health are a top priority for dual diagnosis treatment. Depression, mania, anxiety and irritability are only a few underlying mood changes that someone may experience. On their own, these mental health conditions are already hard to deal with. When those same conditions are combined with possible substance use disorders, it creates a co-occurring disorder. As an example, a person that is suffering from anxiety will try to self-medicate with unprescribed depressant drugs. These downers are sedatives by nature, and can quickly turn into an addiction for someone who becomes dependent on how it makes them feel. These should only be prescribed by doctors and taken with care.
The Truth
When you’reaware of the consequences of self-medication, the treatment steps become much clearer as a goal. Without professional experience, you can’t diagnose the original underlying cause of your condition. Not all symptoms are created equally, and there is no way for a patient to factor in how a specific medication will interact. Psychiatric medications should never be combined with alcohol, which includes things like cough medicines. Self-medication is not good for you and your body or mind should never be the experiment to find out what works.
Risky Behaviour
Mental health stigmas are one of the reasons that people are open to the dangers of self-medication. They feel that society has a judgmental attitude towards mental health prescriptions. With self-medication, these same prescriptions and their variants are purchased after going through multiple illegal hoops.
Besides the legal issues that could arise, there is a good chance that you are not treating the correct condition. Getting medication to treat depression is a terrible idea for someone that is suffering from bipolar disorder. And when you’re suffering from anxiety, the risk of overdose rises. There is no reason to risk themental and physical consequences of self-medicating when there are more appropriate avenues to treat your condition. Please seek help from your psychiatrist or get referred to one.
Reaching A Personal Goal
When your health is in danger, think twice about going the risky route of self-medicating. It’s easy to use clouded judgement as an excuse for not getting better. No matter how you start, a healthy mind will always be positively fuelled by making healthy personal decisions. Sometimes, self medication can turn into addiction, which can wreak havoc on your body and mind. Reach for appropriate medical support to help support your recovery.
Today’s teen girls are growing up in a time that’s very different from when their parents and grandparents were young. They’re surrounded by new technology and social media that consistently exposes them to unrealistic beauty standards, cyberbullying and constant comparison to others.
This is why it’s so important for educators and parents to teach teen girls resilience – the ability to cope with challenges, bounce back from failures, and develop a strong sense of self-worth. This will then boost their mental health.
Challenges Encountered by Teenage Girls During Adolescence
The path to adulthood for adolescent girls is often lined with various challenges that significantly influence their development. While each girl’s experience is unique, there are some common struggles they frequently encounter:
Regular Use of Social Media
Building connections with family and friends is crucial for individuals of all ages. Social media has revolutionised the way we maintain these relationships, particularly over great distances. However, this constant online presence has a downside.
Many teenagers find themselves grappling with the pressure to maintain a certain persona on these platforms. Influenced by the glorified lives of young celebrities and popular influencers, as well as the need to keep pace with peers, this pressure can take a toll on their self-esteem and lead to a skewed perception of themselves.
Expectations From Friends and Family
The role of education in developing an individual’s skillset is undeniable. However, the stress of excelling academically, often influenced by lofty expectations within the family, can create significant strain on teenagers’ mental health. Comparing themselves to their peers, parents, or siblings sets high standards that can be challenging to meet.
If academic pressures aren’t managed well, they can harm a teenager’s self-esteem, particularly when they don’t meet their own expectations. It’s important for teenage girls to realise that their worth and intellect aren’t just measured by their grades or school performance.
Unhealthy Desires to Fit In
Despite the current portrayal of young online influencers as champions of self-expression, the struggle to conform to their ideals can be a significant issue for many teenage girls. Being part of a social circle can offer comfort and a feeling of belonging, which is often an essential aspect of their growth.
However, this pursuit of fitting in can lead girls to sacrifice their own beliefs and values. This may take various forms, such as changing their appearance significantly or adopting harmful eating habits, all in an effort to gain acceptance within a particular social group of peers.
The Importance of Resilience in Overcoming Challenges
Adolescent girls often draw strength from their relationships with friends and family. However, they frequently confront some of their toughest challenges when by themselves. This underscores the importance of resilience, giving them the ability to respond or recover from difficult situations.
Resilience goes beyond simply picking yourself up after setbacks. It encourages learning from these experiences and using them to build character, ultimately coming out stronger from going through various challenges in life.
Overcoming Personal Setbacks
In their formative years, young women often encounter various personal hurdles, including dealing with rejection, managing failures, or going through traumatic life events. If they don’t have strong coping mechanisms, these challenges can have lasting effects, shaping their self-confidence and future relationships.
Developing resilience equips these young women with the necessary skills to confront and overcome these challenging moments, growing stronger and more self-assured.
Learning From Success and Failure
Learning from life’s challenges doesn’t need to be a solo journey. Engaging with a mentor or participating in a support group can offer young girls new insights and different perspectives they might not have considered alone.
In situations that are more complicated, consulting with professionals in settings such as anxiety therapy or trauma therapy can provide a secure space for teens to work through their experiences effectively. These forms of support can also help young women build self-awareness of how their experiences may be having a lasting impact on their mental health while also discovering helpful coping mechanisms.
Improving Decision Making
Young individuals often possess a feeling of invulnerability and belief that they have all the answers. This combination of perceived invincibility and limited experience can result in hasty, impromptu choices, some with lasting impacts.
Teen girls who focus on building their resilience are more inclined to consider the long-term implications of their actions. They become experienced at evaluating the advantages and disadvantages beforehand, leading to wiser choices and avoiding potential mistakes.
Begin Cultivating Resilience Today
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Trichotillomania is a condition where you have an uncontrollable urge to pull out your own hair. This is usually hair from your scalp but may also involve other areas of your body such as your eyelashes, eyebrows, genital area, legs, armpits, or face. Pulling out your hair may help to relieve feelings of stress or anxiety. It is also known as “trich” or TTM.
What are the symptoms of trichotillomania?
Symptoms of trichotillomania vary from person to person. They may be automatic, meaning you pull out your hair without being aware that you are doing it; for example when you are studying, reading, or watching TV, or focused which involves hair-pulling on purpose to relieve anxiety or stress.
Hair-pulling is usually done in private, and many people with trichotillomania feel ashamed or embarrassed about their condition and try to hide it from others. It is commonly accompanied by other behaviours such as biting your nails, picking your skin, or chewing your lips or cheeks.
Symptoms of trichotillomania may include:
Frequent, repeated episodes of pulling out hair from your scalp or other parts of your body
Increased tension before pulling out your hair, followed by a feeling of pleasure or relief afterwards
Visible hair loss, thinning or bald areas on your scalp or other parts of your body
Irritated or sore skin around the area
Damage to your hair follicles
Rituals such as pulling out specific types of hair, following the same steps or pulling out your hair in certain patterns
Playing with pulled-out hair, such as rubbing it across your lips or face, biting, chewing, or eating pulled-out hair
Repeated failed attempts to stop hair-pulling
Avoiding situations where people might find out about your hair-pulling such as sleepovers, visiting hair salons, swimming, or sexual relationships
Problems or conflict with family and friends as a result of your hair-pulling
Pulling fibres from blankets and clothing or hair from pets or dolls
What causes trichotillomania?
The cause of trichotillomania isn’t fully understood. It may be a way of dealing with stress, strong emotions anxiety, a habit, or a hormonal or chemical imbalance. Trichotillomania may also be genetic and often runs in families.
What should I do if I have symptoms of trichotillomania?
If you have symptoms of trichotillomania, remember that you are not alone, and help is available. Make an appointment to see your GP.
How is trichotillomania treated?
The main treatment for trichotillomania is a type of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) called habit reversal training. Habit reversal training aims to replace a bad habit with something that isn’t harmful, and may involve:
Keeping a journal of your hair-pulling to identify triggers and learning how to avoid them
Learning to replace hair-pulling with another action that isn’t harmful, like squeezing a stress ball
Getting support from loved ones and support groups
Some self-help tips for trichotillomania that may help include:
Relieve stress by squeezing a stress ball or using a fidget toy
Wear something over your hair such as a bandana or a tight-fitting hat
Cut your hair short
Exercise
Practice relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation or take a soothing bath to ease stress or anxiety
Exercise
Put plasters on your fingertips
Other possible treatments for trichotillomania may include:
Acceptance and commitment therapy — can help you learn to accept your hair-pulling urges without acting on them
Cognitive therapy — works by changing negative thoughts and beliefs, and learning healthy ways to manage your condition
Medication — trichotillomania isn’t usually treated with medication, but you may be prescribed medication such as antidepressants to treat an underlying condition like depression or anxiety.
Further help and support
Many people withtrichotillomania feel isolated and try to hide their condition from others. Talking to people you trust as well as your GP and joining support groups can help you feel less alone and often helps to reduce your anxiety and hair-pulling.
For further information, advice, and support on living with trichotillomania, contact:
Trichotillomania Support
OCD UK
Anxiety UK
Alopecia UK
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