Living with bipolar 1 from the age of 16 meant living with deep depressions, of which suicidal thoughts were a part. Being able to safely share these with family and psychiatrists in the past saved my life and helped me hold on in the dark moments of bipolar episodes. I am not alone in feeling this way- millions are struggling now, today. Medication, therapy and support keep me well.
So today I read from my essay in this very special book to tell you- ‘You will feel the sun and smell the rain again, even after suicidal depressions when you lay in bed wanting to disappear. ‘
Please reach for help when you start getting these thoughts and hold on- a better day is coming. Helpline numbers includingSamaritans at 116 123 are available if you need to talk and feel in crisis.
I also know the devastation of losing a loved one to suicide and conversely, to help people through these thoughts. Their stories are not my own so I am not sharing them today but I hope that today and every day we focus on suicide prevention and support for all who are struggling.
Losing someone dear to you can be emotionally and mentally draining, and at times, it can all feel overwhelming. Grief is a normal response to loss, and while it may seem challenging to find a way forward, there are several strategies that can help you work through it effectively and healthily. This blog post will look at five effective and healthy strategies that can help you work through grief, including counselling, self-care, and finding a support system.
Grief Counselling
Grief counselling is one of the most effective strategies to work through grief. At counselling, you can talk about your feelings, thoughts, and emotions about your loss, which helps you to understand your grief and find ways to work through it healthily. A counsellor can provide you with a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, learn coping techniques that work for you, and offer helpful suggestions to help you move forward. You could also consider joining a bereavement group, where you can listen to others and share your experiences of grief.
Self-Care
Grief can take a toll on your physical health, both emotionally and mentally. Practicing self-care is essential in helping you work through your grief effectively. Ensure that you take time to care for yourself by getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising, and engaging in activities that make you feel happy and fulfilled. Engaging in mindfulness practices like yoga, meditation, and deep breathing exercises can also help you feel calm and reduce anxiety.
Find a Support System
You don’t have to go through grief alone; surrounding yourself with people who care for you can help you manage and work through your grief healthily. You can find a support system in close friends, family members, or professional caregivers like hospice workers. The support system will offer you an ear to listen to, a shoulder to cry on, and will help you to continue with your day-to-day activities.
Journalling
Writing down your emotions and thoughts about your loss can be cathartic and helpful in working through your grief. Journalling helps you to identify and understand your feelings, and it gives you an outlet to express your emotions without fear of judgment from others. By exploring your emotions through writing, you can heal your emotional pain and find a way forward.
Seek New Experiences
The loss of someone or something dear to you can make the world seem dull and uninteresting. However, seeking new experiences can help you work through your grief. As scary as it may seem, engaging in new activities or pursuing new hobbies can distract your mind from your grief and help you get back to your normal routine. New experiences can offer you a sense of fulfillment, joy, and purpose.
Everyone grieves differently, but it’s vital to find a strategy that works for you and helps you work through your grief healthily. Grief takes time, and it may be a bumpy road, but with time, you can find ways to move forward while still remembering and loving the person you lost.
Hopefully these five effective and healthy strategies will offer some guidance to those who are mourning and trying to work through their grief. Remember that it’s okay not to be okay, and seeking help is a strength, not a weakness.
This blog was written by freelance writer Lizzie Weakley.
