Category: Depression

5 Effective And Healthy Strategies To Work Though Grief by Lizzie Weakley.

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Losing someone dear to you can be emotionally and mentally draining, and at times, it can all feel overwhelming. Grief is a normal response to loss, and while it may seem challenging to find a way forward, there are several strategies that can help you work through it effectively and healthily. This blog post will look at five effective and healthy strategies that can help you work through grief, including counselling, self-care, and finding a support system.

Grief Counselling

Grief counselling is one of the most effective strategies to work through grief. At counselling, you can talk about your feelings, thoughts, and emotions about your loss, which helps you to understand your grief and find ways to work through it healthily. A counsellor can provide you with a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, learn coping techniques that work for you, and offer helpful suggestions to help you move forward. You could also consider joining a bereavement group, where you can listen to others and share your experiences of grief.

Self-Care

Grief can take a toll on your physical health, both emotionally and mentally. Practicing self-care is essential in helping you work through your grief effectively. Ensure that you take time to care for yourself by getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising, and engaging in activities that make you feel happy and fulfilled. Engaging in mindfulness practices like yoga, meditation, and deep breathing exercises can also help you feel calm and reduce anxiety.

Find a Support System

You don’t have to go through grief alone; surrounding yourself with people who care for you can help you manage and work through your grief healthily. You can find a support system in close friends, family members, or professional caregivers like hospice workers. The support system will offer you an ear to listen to, a shoulder to cry on, and will help you to continue with your day-to-day activities.

Journalling

Writing down your emotions and thoughts about your loss can be cathartic and helpful in working through your grief. Journalling helps you to identify and understand your feelings, and it gives you an outlet to express your emotions without fear of judgment from others. By exploring your emotions through writing, you can heal your emotional pain and find a way forward.

Seek New Experiences

The loss of someone or something dear to you can make the world seem dull and uninteresting. However, seeking new experiences can help you work through your grief. As scary as it may seem, engaging in new activities or pursuing new hobbies can distract your mind from your grief and help you get back to your normal routine. New experiences can offer you a sense of fulfillment, joy, and purpose.

Everyone grieves differently, but it’s vital to find a strategy that works for you and helps you work through your grief healthily. Grief takes time, and it may be a bumpy road, but with time, you can find ways to move forward while still remembering and loving the person you lost.

Hopefully these five effective and healthy strategies will offer some guidance to those who are mourning and trying to work through their grief. Remember that it’s okay not to be okay, and seeking help is a strength, not a weakness.

This blog was written by freelance writer Lizzie Weakley.

Healthy Shouldn’t Be Hard: How To Live A Healthy Life And Love It By Dixie Somers

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Living a healthy life can be a challenge for many of us, and it is quite understandable. With busy schedules, ease-of-access to unhealthy food, and distractions abounding, it is quite easy to slip up on our health goals. 

But the great news is that living a healthy life can be achieved with a little bit of effort and the right mindset. Learning how to live a healthy life!

Start With a Positive Mindset 

Living a healthy life is more than just eating salads and hitting the gym. It starts with your mindset. You need to cultivate a positive outlook on life and embrace a healthy lifestyle. Instead of seeing it as a chore, make it a choice. When you are motivated and excited about living a healthy life, it will be easier to take steps towards it every day. 

A great way to start being more positive is to practice gratitude and mindfulness. Start each day by taking a few minutes for yourself to think about what you are thankful for in life. As you go through your day, focus on the present moment and find joy in small things that make it special.  

Remind yourself of all the good things happening around you, instead of only focusing on the negative. This can help to put you in a more positive frame of mind and make it easier to embrace a healthy lifestyle. 

Nourish Your Life With a Better Diet 

Nutrition is key to living a healthy life. Eating a balanced diet that is rich in whole foods, fruits, and vegetables is essential. Good nutrition will provide you with the energy and nutrients needed to enhance your mental and physical well-being, reduce the risk of chronic diseases, and maintain a healthy weight. 

Choosing the best diet for yourself can be a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Start by researching different diets and find out which one fits your lifestyle and goals. Consider factors such as availability of certain foods, the amount of time you plan to commit to prepping and cooking meals, and any dietary restrictions and preferences you may have. 

Once you have narrowed down your choices, talk to a healthcare professional and get their advice on whether the diet is right for you. Finally, try the new diet out for a few weeks and see how it fits into your lifestyle. Adjust as needed so that it works best for you! 

Exercise For Health

Physical activity is essential for good health. It helps improve your cardiovascular health, strengthen your bones, reduce stress, and boost your immune system. Find an exercise routine or weight loss program that works for you, and make it a habit. You can start with simple activities such as walking, jogging, or cycling for 30 minutes a day and gradually increase to more intense workouts. 

Exercise is important for maintaining our overall health, but it is also important to listen to your body and know when to take a break. It’s okay to take some time off from exercising if you are feeling overly fatigued or unwell. Be sure to give yourself enough rest between workouts so that your body can recover properly. Please note as well that people with eating disorders may want to over-exercise, if you are finding that this is you, please speak to your GP or psychiatrist when you can.

If you don’t feel comfortable with a certain exercise or activity, listen to your body and opt for something else.

Practice Self-Care 

Self-care is critical for living a healthy life. It helps reduce stress, anxiety and promotes mental and emotional well-being. Incorporate practices such as meditation, yoga, or other relaxation techniques into your daily routine. Take time out to do things you enjoy such as reading a book, taking a bath, or getting a massage. 

Manage Your Stress Levels 

Stress is a natural part of life, but chronic stress can have a negative impact on your health. It can lead to high blood pressure, weakened immune system, and depression. Find ways to manage stress, such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing exercises. Take breaks throughout the day, and prioritize self-care activities that help you relax and recharge. 

Get Enough Sleep 

Sleep is essential for good health and well-being. It helps your body rejuvenate, repair and regenerate. Lack of sleep can lead to fatigue, irritability, and poor concentration. Aim to get at least 7-8 hours of quality sleep every night. Establish a relaxing bedtime routine that will help you wind down, such as avoiding electronics and turning off the TV an hour before bed. 

Creating an optimal sleeping environment is key for getting a good night’s rest. To optimize your bedroom, start by making sure it is cool and dark; this helps promote the release of melatonin, which is essential for sleep. Make sure your mattress and pillows are comfortable and supportive to ensure proper body alignment and support during sleep. Invest in blackout curtains to block out external noise or use a sound machine if necessary. 

Surround Yourself With Supportive People 

Living a healthy life can be difficult if you don’t have people around you who support your goals. This is why it’s important to surround yourself with people who share your desire to be healthy. 

Whether it’s joining a local fitness class, finding a workout buddy, or attending healthy cooking classes, there are plenty of ways to connect with like-minded people. 

Focus on Progress, Not Perfection 

It’s important to remember that living a healthy life is not about being perfect. There will be days when you slip up, and that’s okay. The key is to focus on progress, not perfection. Celebrate the small wins, and keep pushing yourself to improve. 

By having a positive mindset, incorporating good nutrition, exercising regularly, practicing self-care, and getting enough sleep, you will enjoy all the benefits of living a healthy life. These habits may take some time to form, but with patience and perseverance, you will soon find that living a healthy life is one of the best decisions you ever made. 

This article was written by Dixie Somers, freelance writer in the USA.

Feeling Low? Here’s What Can Help You Regain Control Of Life.

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Each of us is our own worst critic and enemy when it comes to matters of the heart. We judge ourselves more harshly than others and when we set standards for our lives, they can often feel impossible. We listen to our own inner voice more than others and when we are overly critical, we’re actually approaching situations and life all wrong.

Who else do you listen to that tells you you’re bad at things? Probably no one else because no one will criticise you more than you do. When you’re feeling low, it can really help to do all that you can to feel better in yourself. You need to feel like a success!

For example, if you don’t own a business, being accomplished could come from studying hard in something new. If you do own a business, you could feel more accomplished with the help of the create chatbot feature you can add to your website – that accomplishment comes from knowing you’re offering value to customers. Things like this can make you feel fantastic about yourself, which is what you should try to achieve at all times.

So, how else can you feel more accomplished, when you’re feeling low?

Consider where you are in life.

How far have you come in life so far? It doesn’t matter where you are right now, you will have come far in life and you have to think about the journey you’ve undertaken. From a personality and mental point of view – even a physical change – you have changed and grown as a person and it’s so exciting! You need to own that and be proud of yourself for it because you are the best person to feel that pride

Appreciate who you are becoming.

No matter which pathways you’ve taken in life so far, you have to be proud of the person you are becoming. You have done so many things so far and hit so many milestones!. If you’re running your own business, you might consider that this is a massive accomplishment compared to where you imagined you would be right now.

Learn to be comfortable with you.

Not everyone goes through life feeling comfortable about who they are but you are a strong person who has overcome every negative situation in life so far. What’s to stop you doing this again and again? Nothing! You are the person in charge of your life, and you deserve to feel like you are doing something right. By changing the things you’re not proud of, you are going to mature and grow in ways you couldn’t imagine.

Create stability.

In your job, in your home life and in your relationships, you should do all that you can to feel more stable in life. Being in charge of that stability takes some time but it’s something that will make you feel like you’re winning in life and you deserve that. Pace yourself with it and take each day as it comes. Feeling low will not go away overnight. But by creating stability in areas of your life, this will help you.

If you are feeling low and think you may be depressed, please do go and see your GP and /or a therapist. There is no shame in reaching for help.

This article was written by a freelance writer.

What Causes OCD To Get Worse? by Sandra Hernandez

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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterised by intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviours that can significantly impact a person’s daily life. While the exact cause of OCD is still unknown, it’s important to understand the factors that can worsen the symptoms. By exploring these triggers, we can gain insight into how to effectively manage and improve the lives of individuals with OCD.

1. Environmental Triggers

Stress and Anxiety

Stress and anxiety play a significant role in exacerbating OCD symptoms. The heightened levels of stress can activate the brain’s fear response, triggering obsessions and compulsions. The constant worry and apprehension experienced by individuals with OCD can further fuel their anxiety, leading to a vicious cycle of escalating symptoms.

Life Transitions and Major Events

Life changes, such as moving to a new place, starting a new job or school, or going through significant life events like marriage, childbirth, or divorce, can trigger or worsen OCD symptoms. These transitions disrupt familiar routines and introduce new stressors, increasing the likelihood of obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors.

Lack of Social Support

Social support plays a crucial role in managing OCD. The absence of a strong support system can contribute to feelings of isolation and loneliness, which can worsen OCD symptoms. Having understanding and empathetic individuals who can provide encouragement and help during challenging times is essential for individuals with OCD.

2. Maladaptive Coping Mechanisms

Avoidance and Safety-Seeking Behaviors

Individuals with OCD often develop avoidance strategies to steer clear of triggers that provoke anxiety. However, this avoidance only provides temporary relief and reinforces the anxiety response in the long run. Similarly, safety-seeking behaviors, such as repetitive checking or seeking reassurance, can intensify OCD symptoms by reinforcing the belief that the obsessions are truly threatening.

Rituals and Compulsions

The compulsive behaviors characteristic of OCD provide temporary relief from obsessive thoughts. However, relying on rituals and compulsions as coping mechanisms can inadvertently strengthen the association between the obsessions and the need to perform these behaviors. This perpetuates the cycle of obsessions, anxiety, and compulsions, leading to a worsening of OCD symptoms over time.

3. Biological Factors

Genetic Predisposition

Research suggests that genetics plays a role in the development of OCD. Individuals with a family history of OCD are more likely to develop the disorder themselves. Genetic factors can influence the severity of symptoms, making individuals more susceptible to experiencing a worsening of OCD symptoms.

Neurochemical Imbalances

Neurotransmitters, such as serotonin, play a crucial role in regulating mood and anxiety. In individuals with OCD, there may be imbalances or dysregulation in the neurotransmitter systems, particularly serotonin. These imbalances can contribute to the intensity and persistence of obsessions and compulsions, leading to a worsening of symptoms.

4. Lack of Treatment or Inadequate Treatment

Delayed or Ineffective Diagnosis

OCD can often be misdiagnosed or undiagnosed for an extended period, delaying the initiation of appropriate treatment. Without a proper diagnosis, individuals with OCD may struggle to understand their symptoms and may not receive the necessary support and interventions, which can contribute to the worsening of their condition.

Inadequate Therapy or Medication

Effective treatment for OCD often involves a combination of evidence-based therapy approaches, such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and medication, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). However, finding the right therapy and medication that works for an individual can be challenging. Inadequate therapy or medication can impede symptom management and lead to a deterioration of OCD symptoms.

5. Lifestyle Factors

Lack of Sleep and Fatigue

Sleep deprivation and fatigue can significantly impact mental health, including OCD symptoms. The lack of quality sleep disrupts cognitive functioning and emotional regulation, making it more difficult for individuals with OCD to manage their symptoms effectively. Fatigue can intensify obsessive thoughts and decrease resilience, contributing to a worsening of OCD symptoms.

Substance Abuse and OCD

Substance abuse, such as alcohol or illicit drugs, can worsen OCD symptoms. Substance use can disrupt neurochemical balance, exacerbating anxiety and compulsive behaviors. Additionally, individuals may turn to substance abuse as a maladaptive coping mechanism, further worsening their overall mental health and OCD symptoms.

Understanding the factors that contribute to the worsening of OCD symptoms is crucial for effective management and improvement of individuals’ lives with this disorder.With the right interventions and support, individuals with OCD can lead fulfilling lives despite their challenges.

This article was written by freelance writer Sandra Hernandez.

Introducing EMDR Therapy- A Guide For Those New To Treatment by Brooke Chaplan.

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Have you heard about Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy but are not sure what it is or how it works? EMDR therapy is a type of psychotherapy that is mainly used to treat Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and other similar conditions. This form of therapy has been known to produce incredible results in clients with symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and overwhelming fear. If you are someone who wants to know more about EMDR therapy, you are in the right place. This guide explains everything you need to know about EMDR therapy in detail. 

What is EMDR Therapy? 

EMDR therapy is a type of psychotherapy designed to help individuals overcome the effects of trauma and other emotional disorders. EMDR works by reprocessing the negative emotions, memories, and sensations related to the trauma so that they no longer have the power to cause distress. During a typical EMDR session, the client is guided through a series of bilateral eye movements, which induce a rapid eye movement (REM) sleep-like state that enables swift processing of traumatic memories. This form of therapy is client-led, meaning that the therapist guides the client, but the client is in control of the process. 

Who Can Benefit From EMDR Therapy? 

EMDR therapy is an ideal treatment option for individuals who suffer from PTSD and other traumatic or stress-related disorders. However, anyone experiencing emotional distress due to past events, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, and other similar issues can also benefit from EMDR therapy. 

The EMDR Therapy Process 

EMDR therapy sessions typically last 50-90 minutes, and the total number of sessions required varies depending on the individual’s needs and symptoms. An initial intake session is held to assess the individual’s needs, symptoms, and goals. During subsequent sessions, the therapist helps the individual to identify and process the negative emotions and memories related to the traumatic experience. This is done through a specific protocol that involves the client’s recall of the traumatic event and the use of bilateral eye movements to enable swift and efficient processing. The therapy ends when the client reports that the distress related to a specific memory has reduced to an acceptable level. 

Benefits of EMDR Therapy 

EMDR therapy is a unique, non-invasive, and relatively quick way to process traumatic memories and help clients overcome negative emotions. The benefits of EMDR therapy include shorter therapy duration, increased treatment efficiency, less chance of retraumatisation, and more profound and long-lasting results. EMDR does not involve any medications or invasive techniques, making it a safe treatment option for most individuals. 

Finding a Qualified EMDR Therapist 

To ensure that you receive the intended benefits of EMDR therapy, it is crucial to find a qualified EMDR therapist who has the necessary training and credentials. If in the UK, EMDR can be found on the NHS but there are long waiting lists, so you may need to find a private therapist via the Counselling Directory. If in the USA, a certified EMDR therapist should be licensed in their state, have the required training, and be registered with the EMDR International Association (EMDRIA). You can also check online reviews or ask for referrals from someone who has benefited from EMDR therapy. 

EMDR therapy is a highly effective form of therapy that helps individuals process their traumatic memories, overcome negative emotions, and achieve lasting healing. If you or someone you love is suffering from PTSD or other mental health issues, we urge you to give EMDR therapy a try.

By following the EMDR therapy process, working with a qualified EMDR therapist, and staying committed to the treatment, you will be able to live a healthier and happier life. We hope this guide was helpful in introducing you to EMDR therapy, and we wish you the best on your healing journey. 

Brooke Chaplan is a freelance writer.

How Mental Illness Can Affect Our Coping Mechanisms.

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Coping mechanisms are strategies that people use or develop in order to deal with, or avoid dealing with, difficult and stressful emotions or situations. Whilst some people may use exercise, a healthy diet or meditation as a way to process difficult feelings, it can be very easy to fall into unhealthy habits instead, especially if we have pre-existing mental health conditions.  

For example, those who have suffered with eating disorders may automatically fall back into restrictive eating habits or fall into a pattern of binge eating when life gets difficult. Whilst we can easily beat ourselves up for not ‘handling things’ in a healthy and productive manner, it’s important to remember that coping mechanisms serve an instinctive purpose. In times of stress, we seek comfort and safety. On a biochemical level, unhealthy coping mechanisms are serving that purpose.  

That doesn’t mean we should allow them to continue, however. Part of overcoming mental illness is learning how to cope in healthy ways that serve a higher purpose for you long term. Here, we will take a closer look at how mental illness can affect our coping mechanisms, and how you can learn to shift your unhealthy coping habits into more helpful ones. 

Why mental illness makes us vulnerable 

Mental illnesses come in a wide variety, and each person will experience them slightly differently to the next. But essentially, mental illness means that our brains aren’t working exactly how they should. This can warp our perception, and make us feel more anxious, stressed, insecure and prone to depression than we would be otherwise. 

When we are stressed, we seek instant comfort. Our brains instinctively drive us to seek the quickest fix and push us to run away from our cause of stress. This is why when you are really, really hungry, all you want to do is eat sugary foods such as chocolate – your body knows that’s the quickest fix for its hunger, even though you know consciously that it’s not the healthiest option. 

For people with mental illness, this stress response can trigger a repetition of a familiar pattern of negative behaviour that instantly soothes or avoids the initial problem, but also creates bigger issues long term. 

Recognise your behaviour 

It’s important to recognise when we are relying on unhelpful coping mechanisms to avoid facing stress, as they can lead to more serious mental and physical problems. If you are fixating on something that is not going to help you long term, such as obsessive cleaning, isolating yourself from family and friends, or abusing alcohol, you need to consciously recognise the signs that your habits are not serving you. 

You may find it helpful to write down the root causes of your negative habits, and commit to facing the problems head on instead of allowing them to cause you further problems. Talking to someone you trust can be a massive help and relief, and can help you springboard yourself into a better place mentally. 

Make small changes 

Often when our mental health is low, we can feel overwhelmed by the thought of fixing everything. Remember, your perception is magnified when you are struggling mentally, so everything will seem worse and harder than it truly is. Being kind to yourself and committing to changing just one small habit at a time can be really helpful in focusing on what you can achieve – one step at a time.  

Speaking to a health professional can be an intimidating thought, but sometimes it is necessary in order for us to make profound changes to our health and wellbeing. There is no shame in asking for help, and you are not alone. By recognising when our coping mechanisms are beginning to be less than healthy, we can make the choice to improve them. 

This article is written by a freelance writer.

10 Steps To Managing Your Anxiety by Anita Ginsburg.

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Anxiety is a natural response to stress, but sometimes it can become overwhelming and interfere with your daily life. If you’re struggling with anxiety, you don’t have to go it alone. There are many effective strategies for managing anxiety that psychiatrists and mental health professionals use every day. Here are 10 proven strategies for reducing anxiety and taking control of your thoughts and feelings.

Identify Your Triggers

The first step in managing your anxiety is to identify what triggers it in the first place. Is there a specific situation, person, or event that causes you to feel anxious? By recognizing these triggers, you can begin to take steps to avoid them or find ways of coping when they do arise.

Keep a Stress Journal

Keeping track of your thoughts and feelings can be a great way to gain insight into how your body reacts to certain situations and how best to manage them. Write down any physical sensations, emotions, or triggers that contribute to your anxiety so that you can better understand what’s causing it and how best to deal with it.

Exercise Regularly

Exercise is not only a great way to burn off pent-up energy but also helps release endorphins which act as natural mood boosters. Even just a few minutes of exercise each day can help reduce stress levels and improve overall mental wellbeing.

Practice Relaxation Techniques

Taking time out of each day for relaxation is essential for keeping your stress levels low. Take up yoga, practice deep breathing exercises, or listen to calming music before bed each night—whatever works for you. Finding activities that bring about relaxation will help reduce the intensity of your anxiety over time and lead towards more peaceful days ahead.

Talk To Someone

Talking about the things that are causing you anxiety is often the first step in taking control of it again; whether it be with family members, friends, or even professional psychiatric services, like New Tele Doc, if needed. Having someone else who you trust to talk through issues with can help put problems into perspective and provide clarity on potential solutions going forward—something we often need when dealing with our own anxieties.

Get Enough Sleep

Lack of sleep can exacerbate existing anxieties so make sure you get at least 7-8 hours per night whenever possible; if not more depending on personal circumstances. If insomnia is an issue then try getting outside during daytime hours (weather permitting) as exposure to sunlight helps regulate the body’s natural circadian rhythm which aids in quality sleep later at night.

Eat Well and Drink Water

Eating well balanced meals throughout the day helps keep energy levels high while avoiding unhealthy snacks or sugary drinks which can cause blood sugar spikes/drops leading towards feelings of fatigue/anxiousness respectively. Similarly drinking lots of water helps ensure good hydration levels which makes us feel more alert mentally whilst providing physical benefits too.

Practice Mindful Meditation

Mindful meditation involves focusing on one’s thoughts without judgment in order to allow yourself some time away from any negative self-talk or worrying thoughts; allowing yourself time away from such things has been proven beneficial for those struggling with anxiety issues. It’s important however not to focus solely on this technique as other methods should always be employed alongside mindful meditation too when tackling any difficult issue such as this one.

Avoid Caffeine and Alcohol

Both caffeine and alcohol are known stimulants which if consumed regularly can increase adrenal hormones leading towards heightened states of fear, anxiety, and nervousness. Try replacing coffee/tea based beverages (which contain caffeine) instead with green tea or fruit juices (which don’t!) as these are far healthier options overall particularly when trying to combat any pre-existing anxieties already present within oneself.

Break Negative Thinking Patterns

Lastly breaking negative thinking patterns involves challenging any irrational beliefs we may have about ourselves by looking at evidence objectively. This could involve writing down pros and cons for certain decisions we make before acting upon them so we have an understanding of why certain actions should be taken based upon factual evidence rather than assumptions made from our own potentially skewed perspectives.

Everyone experiences periods of worry from time-to-time but learning how best to manage those worries will increase your confidence in being able handle similar situations better next time they arise. By following the above 10 steps anyone suffering from regular bouts of anxiety will likely find their overall quality of life improving dramatically once proper management techniques become part of their daily routine! Psychiatric services such as therapy sessions/medication may also be necessary depending upon individual circumstances. Seeking medical advice should never be seen as a sign of weakness but rather strength instead because ultimately tackling problems head-on is better than running away from them indefinitely.

Anita Ginsburg is a freelance writer.

On World Bipolar Day I Hope For: The Road to Remission by Eleanor

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Today is World Bipolar Day and for those of us living with bipolar disorder we know that living with it every day, year round is more accurate. However today is our day to talk about life with mental illness and to try and eradicate the stigma around the illness… ‘crazy lady’ ‘nuts’ ‘drama queen’.

World Bipolar Day is designed to raise awareness worldwide of bipolar conditions and to work to eliminate social stigma whilst providing information to educate and help people understand the condition.

Even though I live in remission/recovery with the illness, I am medicated daily to be this way, and I have undergone years of therapy and learnt coping methods too, with support from family.

Well, before I found medication that stabilises my bipolar highs and lows, life looked very different.

There were times I couldn’t work. I was so depressed I lay in bed in all day, only getting up to eat. I was scared to have a shower and wash my hair.

Life looked bleak. All I wanted was my duvet and oblivion. I had intrusive thoughts about ending my life, I was in a lot of emotional pain and this would last for weeks, sometimes months on end.

Bipolar isn’t just a bit high or a bit low…. its depression and mania, suicidal ideation and psychosis, self harm thoughts, hypersexuality, hyper activity, believing delusions that aren’t real…..SO much. Its episodic but it can ruin your life. Some turn to drugs, alcohol, sex to cope. Some hear voices too.

I have been in hospital twice for fairly long stays. I have been sectioned under the mental health act and held in a hospital unit against my will. I have been injected with sedatives to calm my mind and body when I couldn’t consent. I have met people in hospital who were suicidal, anxious, depressed, high on drugs, in psychosis. I lived on a ward where I heard people being restrained.

So, not much fun really. Luckily this month I am celebrating 9 years of remission out of hospital! I also came out of hospital as a nervous wreck and thankfully, therapy has helped.

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This blog is inspired by one of my followers who asked me what was my ‘Aha’ moment in recovery.

As well as finding the medicine Lithium, a salt that controls the mood fluctuations, the biggest thing I did for my own healing was go through therapy for my panic attacks and PTSD like symptoms. This was done with the support of my husband and family and because I has been on an NHS waiting list for 2 years, I needed help. My therapist and I have done EMDR trauma therapy which has helped me to process things.

In fact, I still do get anxiety attacks – just less. I have been in a very good place generally in the past year. Finding support at home, at work and from friends and family has been the most stabilising part.

I have had bipolar since I was 15, I am 34 and can tell you that this has not always been the case and my mental health has and will fluctuate.

I learnt recently that bipolar brains are neurodiverse, meaning our brain chemicals act differently to a neurotypical brain. Always good to understand the biology behind it too as this illness can be inherited and run in families- my Dad and I and other relatives have it.

On World Bipolar Day I hope:

-Employers adhere to the disability act and make reasonable adjustments to help those of us with bipolar to work in a better way for them, including hybrid working.

-People with mental illness aren’t fired because they can’t get to a physical workplace.

-Mental health services need better funding, so that people with bipolar can get a correct diagnosis sooner and get the help they need.

-People not in the Western world will get access to mental health medication and therapies that they desperately need.

Thank you for your ongoing support,

Eleanor

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Read more about my journey with bipolar in my book Bring me to Light

4 Ways To Improve Employee Wellbeing.

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Considering the wellbeing of employees has never been more important, or more timely. With world events like the coronavirus pandemic having a serious impact on global mental health, more and more employers have begun to more seriously consider the overall wellbeing of their employees, not simply their productivity in the workplace. 

In fact, many employers are beginning to understand how the two are intimately connected.Indeed, it is reported that healthy employees are 74% more likely to be satisfied with their current job than unhealthy employees.

It is therefore important for companies to consider ways to improve employee wellbeing. Below is a list of tips for improving the wellbeing of your employees.

Training and Long-Term Goals

The reason that many employees are unhappy at work is that they feel they have stagnated, spending years in a particular position without any opportunity for growth or new responsibilities. 

It is therefore important to understand the individual professional goals of your employees and how you might deploy training and development schemes to help them achieve those goals. An employee is much happier if they feel they are working towards a goal or new opportunity, not simply stuck in a 9-5 grind. 

It is well worth investing in personal development schemes to help employees recognise and develop their individual talents. These schemes can come in the form of lecture series or workshops, training schemes or bootcamps. 

Flexibility

It has been reported by several studies that allowing employees greater flexibility regarding when and where they work can greatly improve mental health. Allowing flexible working hours  and locations can help employees feel a greater sense of autonomy over their personal and professional lives. 

Obviously this involves a degree of coordination, since employees must still be able to work collaboratively throughout the day, but studies have shown that more flexible scheduling can lead to greater wellbeing and productivity.

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Social Engagements

It is important for the wellbeing of employees to work in a friendly and collaborative workplace environment. Creating opportunities for social, non-work engagements for your employees is not just a chance for them to let off steam, it can be a vital way of helping employees build meaningful and productive social relationships with their colleagues.

If staff are on friendly terms, they are more likely to look forward to coming into work, as well as more likely to collaborate successfully with their colleagues on work-related tasks. A social and amicable work environment almost always leads to a happier and more productive workforce.

Creating a healthy office environment, full of friendly social links, can be achieved in several ways. One way is the more informal route of arranging after-work social engagements (or weekend trips) for your employees. Or you could go the more formal route of arranging dedicated team-building days or afternoons. 

There are a myriad of ways of creating a friendly workplace environment, but it is inarguable that doing so will lead to greater wellbeing among all employees. 

Strategize and Focus on Mental health

Many people believe that their mental health issues can at least partly be attributed to the pressures and strains of their professional lives or because they require financial assistance. It is therefore essential for employers to focus on creating an inclusive environment where mental health issues can be discussed and tackled in an open, honest and compassionate way. 

There are many ways in which employees can address mental health issues in the workplace. One is to create, and follow, a comprehensive wellbeing policy. The policy should signpost ways in which the company works to address mental health issues as well as the resources that the company provides for employees in regards to mental health management. 

Creating a workplace environment in which mental health is clearly seen to be a priority will foster a greater sense of emotional security and wellness for your employees.

The Unseen Consequences: How Bad Habits Can Affect Your Health and Wellbeing.

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Most of us have bad habits that we’re aware of, whether it’s smoking, excessive drinking, or eating unhealthy foods. We may think that the only consequence of these habits is the occasional guilty feeling or a bit of embarrassment. Still, bad habits have far-reaching and unseen repercussions that can significantly affect our health. In fact, poor habits such as these can lead to various physical and mental health issues, such as depression, insomnia, and heart disease. The good news is that we can make changes to improve our health and overall well-being by understanding the unseen consequences of our bad habits.

Premature Ageing

Premature ageing is one of the most significant and often unseen consequences of bad habits. Smoking, for example, has been linked to premature wrinkles, age spots, and an overall aged appearance. The same applies to excessive drinking and unhealthy eating habits, contributing to poor skin health and general ageing.

Research has shown that bad habits can also contribute to accelerated ageing of the brain. Studies have found that excessive drinking, smoking, and other unhealthy habits can increase the risk of developing dementia and other age-related cognitive issues.

Decreased Mental Health

Bad habits can also have a negative impact on our mental health. Studies have found that smoking, excessive drinking, and unhealthy eating habits can all increase the risk of developing depression and anxiety. Additionally, poor habits can lead to an increased risk of developing insomnia, which can harm our mental health.

Addictions can be hard to break and severely impact your physical and mental health. Moreover, studies have found that bad habits can also increase the risk of developing substance abuse issues. If you feel you are struggling with addictions, there are drug rehab clinics which can help you, with qualified therapists.

Additionally, unhealthy habits can also lead to an increased risk of developing stress and other negative emotions. Studies have found that smokers and excessive drinkers are more likely to experience emotions such as anger and frustration, which can lead to further mental health issues.

Reduced Motivation

Bad habits can also have a negative effect on our motivation levels. People with unhealthy habits often feel lethargic and lack the energy and drive to complete tasks or take on new challenges. This can sometimes be attributed to poor nutrition, as unhealthy foods leave us feeling sluggish and unmotivated. Similarly, those who smoke often feel tired and lack the energy to exercise, which can further decrease motivation levels.

Bad habits can increase the risk of developing chronic conditions like diabetes and heart disease. These conditions can cause fatigue, which can further reduce our motivation levels. Additionally, those who consume excessive amounts of alcohol are more likely to experience difficulty concentrating, which can decrease motivation and mental health.

Lifestyle Changes 

Bad habits can lead to a dependence on these substances which could significantly alter your lifestyle. Just like you can lack motivation, you may also replace things you should do with bad habits, despite knowing it is not good for you. 

If you develop a dependence on alcohol or drugs, you may ignore responsibilities, such as work, spending time with friends, or even parenting, to indulge in your bad habits. While any bad habit can affect your life and be a problem, these instances are where you have arguably hit rock bottom because you care more about the habit than you do anything else. 

In these cases, seeking help through therapy or drug rehab is crucial. It can take time to accept you need help, but taking steps to find this support is the first stage of getting your life back. 

Increased Risk of Health Conditions and Diseases

Finally, bad habits can increase the risk of developing severe health conditions and diseases. Those who smoke are more likely to experience a stroke, lung cancer, heart disease, and an increased risk of developing COPD and other respiratory conditions. Similarly, excessive alcohol consumption can lead to liver cirrhosis, pancreatitis, and an increased risk of certain types of cancer.

Furthermore, those who engage in unhealthy habits are more likely to develop obesity and type 2 diabetes and an increased risk of developing high blood pressure and high cholesterol. These conditions can lead to an increased risk of stroke and heart attack and even reduce our life expectancy.

Conclusion

In conclusion, ‘bad habits’ can have far-reaching and unseen consequences that significantly affect our health and overall wellbeing. However, by understanding the unseen effects of our bad habits, we can make changes to improve our health and wellness for good.

This article was written by a freelance writer. If you need help for addictions or eating disorders, please reach for help from qualified professionals.