What Therapies Can Help Calm People With ADHD?

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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) affects both children and adults. It can make it harder to stay focused, manage emotions, and control impulsive behaviour. While medication can be helpful for many people, it is not the only option. A range of therapies can help people with ADHD feel calmer, improve daily life, and build better coping skills.

According to the NHS, ADHD affects around 3 to 4% of adults in the UK. Research also suggests that around 5% of children worldwide have ADHD, making it one of the most common neurodevelopmental conditions.

Behavioural therapy

Behavioural therapy is one of the most widely used treatments for ADHD. It focuses on changing unhelpful behaviours and encouraging positive habits through clear goals and rewards.

For children, parents and teachers often play an important role by providing consistent routines and positive reinforcement. Adults can also benefit by learning strategies to manage distractions, improve organisation, and reduce impulsive behaviour.

Over time, these techniques can help people feel more in control and less overwhelmed.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, often called CBT, helps people understand how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are connected. Although it does not cure ADHD, it can help manage common challenges such as anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, and emotional regulation.

Many people with ADHD find that CBT gives them practical tools to handle everyday situations more calmly. Learning how to break tasks into smaller steps and challenge negative thinking can make a big difference.

Mindfulness therapy

Mindfulness encourages people to focus on the present moment rather than becoming distracted by racing thoughts or outside distractions.

Simple breathing exercises, guided meditation, and body awareness techniques can help reduce stress and improve concentration. While mindfulness may take time to learn, regular practice can help some people respond more calmly to difficult situations instead of reacting impulsively.

Many people include mindfulness as part of their daily routine alongside other treatments.

Cryotherapy

Cryotherapy is another therapy that some people explore as part of their wider wellbeing routine. It involves exposing the body to very cold temperatures for a short period (Source: The Good Practice), either through whole-body cryotherapy or localised treatment.

Some people report feeling more relaxed, energised, or mentally refreshed after cryotherapy sessions. The cold exposure may also help reduce muscle tension and support recovery after exercise, which can contribute to an overall sense of wellbeing.

However, there is currently limited scientific evidence to show that cryotherapy directly treats or calms ADHD symptoms. It should be viewed as a complementary wellness option rather than a replacement for established treatments such as behavioural therapy, CBT, or medication. Anyone considering cryotherapy should speak with a qualified healthcare professional, especially if they have underlying health conditions.

Occupational therapy

Occupational therapy helps people develop practical skills for everyday life. An occupational therapist may suggest ways to improve organisation, time management, and daily routines.

This type of therapy can also help people adapt their home, school, or work environment to reduce distractions and make tasks easier to manage.

Small changes, such as creating structured routines or using visual reminders, can have a positive impact on daily life.

Exercise and movement therapy

Regular physical activity can help reduce restlessness and improve mood. Exercise encourages the release of chemicals in the brain that support focus, motivation, and emotional wellbeing.

Activities such as swimming, cycling, walking, yoga, or team sports may help people feel calmer while also improving sleep and reducing stress. The best results usually come from choosing activities that are enjoyable and can be done consistently.

Finding the right approach

There is no single therapy that works for everyone with ADHD. Each person experiences the condition differently, so treatment often involves trying different approaches or combining several therapies.

Behavioural therapy, CBT, mindfulness, occupational therapy, and regular exercise all have strong evidence supporting their role in helping people manage ADHD symptoms. Cryotherapy may also appeal to some people as part of a broader wellbeing plan, although more research is needed to understand its specific effects on ADHD.

Working with healthcare professionals can help identify the most suitable combination of therapies, allowing people with ADHD to feel calmer, build confidence, and enjoy a better quality of life.

We are 7! On Be Ur Own Light’s 7th Blog Anniversary by Eleanor

On the 1st March 2016, I started this blog as a way to provide therapy for myself- as I was going through panic attacks, (caused by trauma). Can you believe that was 7 years ago?! I can’t! Since then I have had several years of therapy and my life changed so much too for the better- I met my husband, we got married and moved to our first home.

The blog has turned into a book Bring me to Light (with Trigger), writing for Metro.co.uk, Glamour, the Telegraph, Happiful, Rethink Mental Illness, Mind and other incredible organisations, I have partnered with large and small brands, charities, businesses, writers to create content that battles stigma on mental health. We have been awarded as a Top 10 UK blog by Vuelio since 2018 (thank you) and I love to share my story to help others and educate people about bipolar, anxiety, panic disorders, psychosis, mania and mental health in the workplace (amongst other mental health topics!). I have also recorded podcasts and have begun speaking in the community about bipolar with my Dad.

I cannot believe it has been 7 years since I opened up my computer to write- I was struggling. a lot. Writing has been such a therapy and a saviour to me.. and I hope this blog helps you too!

As always, I want to thank all my contributors and brands (sponsored or not), as well as the digital agencies and freelance writers who provide content too.

This year March 22- 23 we have featured (where it says my name, I wrote it!)

How to Stay Motivated When You’re Feeling Lost: Tracie Johnson

Change the Story Campaign- Eating Disorder Stereotypes- Hope Virgo

Performance of She Used To Be Mine (Sara Bareilles) by Nicolina Bozzo- Eleanor

5 Tips on How To Talk To Your Boss About Mental Health- freelance writer

Does Retail Therapy help your mental health?– freelance writer

9 Tips On Prioritising Your Mental Health while raising children- freelance writer

How to Keep a Good Mindset with Physical Therapy – Sierra Powell

Bipolar and Perinatal mental health- Eleanor

4 Types of Alcohol Addiction Services You can Turn To for Help- Rachelle Wilber

How to Transform Social Anxiety – Lewis McDonnell at Phobia Support Forum

What It’s Like To Go Through Severe Depression as a Bipolar Episode- Eleanor

What To Do When You Feel Alone- Eleanor

4 Reasons to Cook For Yourself- freelance writer

Learning to Embrace Schizoaffective Disorder -Mental Health Awareness Week- James Lindsay

Promoting wellbeing, good mental health and reducing stress in the elderly- freelance writer

Top 10 UK Mental Health Blog Award from Vuelio- Eleanor

Mental health, low self esteem, body image and fashion- freelance writer

What It Means To Have an NHS Perinatal Psychiatry Meeting- Eleanor

Unbroken- How Madeleine Black learnt to heal after sexual violence- Eleanor

What Tools Go Into Substance Abuse Treatment- Kara Masterson

Living with Anxiety- Promoting Mental Health and Success In the Workplace- Erin Hallett

How to know if you have an eating disorder and what to do next- Rachelle Wilber

How can I help an alcoholic or addict parent?- Chaye McIntosh

Boost Your Confidence- freelance writer

Taking Lithium for Bipolar Disorder- Side Effects – Eleanor

4 Effective Ways to Boost Your Mood- freelance writer

Knowing when its right to seek substance abuse treatment- Rachelle Wilber

Protecting mental health, a guide- The Mental Health Foundation

Letting go of hurtful memories to be happier- freelance writer

Group therapy and healing- Lizzie Weakley

Mental health medication and heatwave side effects- Eleanor

How to Create Healthy Daily habits- Sierra Powell

3 Journalling Techniques for Improved Mental Health- freelance writer

Looking after elderly parents- freelance writer

Thank you to a mental health nurse for sharing my book – Eleanor

Interview on Living with Bipolar with Best For You NHS- Eleanor

5 Tips for Communicating with Someone with Dementia- freelance writer

7 Tips to Help Your Personality Shine Through- freelance writer

Sleep Expert on how to stay cool on hot nights- freelance writer

Book Review of my book Bring me to Light by Deb Wilk- Eleanor

4 kinds of Therapy to consider- Rachelle Wilber

Coping with Borderline Personality Disorder and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder- Dr Joann Mundin

Are work places doing enough for mental health post-covid? – freelance writer

Mental Health at Work: First Aid products- writer

The Anxiety Train- a New Year- Eleanor

PTSD therapies and what is right for you- Kara Masterson

Managing mental health when you start college/university- freelance writer

Helping elderly relatives take care of themselves- freelance writer

How to Stay Emotionally Healthy during a Divorce- Lizzie Weakley

4 Ways EMDR Therapy can help you cope with Anxiety- Rachelle Wilber

Stuck in a Rut? Try These 4 Things- Dixie Somers

Non Traditional Therapeutic Activities to Try for Anxiety- Brooke Chaplan

Dealing with Dental Anxiety- Lizzie Weakley

Overcoming Seasonal Mood Changes- Brian Thomas

3 Years of my book Bring me to Light- Eleanor

5 Unbeatable ways to unwind- Dixie Somers

Speed Up Bipolar diagnosis to save lives- Bipolar UK- Eleanor

Losing a loved one- coping with anxiety- Hannah Walters

4 Ways to Treat an eating disorder- Lizzie Weakley

Bipolar UK commission announcement on government funding – Eleanor

How Living by the waterfront improves health- Rachelle Wilber

What football has taught me about life and mental health- Rose Atkinson-Carter

Anxiety and climbing, not carrying mountains- Eleanor

How Car accidents affect mental health- Stubbs Law Firm

How can EMDR therapy help you?- Brooke Chaplan

Tips for planning a sensory friendly wedding- Clay Reese

How to manage emotional eating- Lizzie Weakley

Methods for helping addiction recovery- Kara Masterson

How to tell if a loved one needs psychiatric help- Brooke Chaplan

What to do if you have an eating disorder- Brooke Chaplan

Navigating a divorce and preserving your mental wellbeing- Dixie Somers

January anxiety and burn out, how to avoid- Dr Catherine Carney at Delamere

How to cope with ADHD- freelance writer

My talk at the mental health awareness shabbat on bipolar- Eleanor

Tips to help seasonal depression- Obehi Iyobhebhe

How to help support your friends journey to sobriety- Anita Ginsburg

Why self care is so important- Brooke Chaplan

Coping with big life changes- Meghan Belnap

Befriending my brain, a new book on psychosis and recovery by James Lindsay- Eleanor

Thank you all for contributing and I am raising a glass to 7 years of this blog!!

Love and gratitude,

Eleanor x