For those who are new readers or don’t really know, I have been journalling for a long time- maybe since the age of 14 on and off. I have always sought to write and get my feelings down on paper. I was looking through some boxes the other day and came across the following ‘Future letter to myself’ from September 2010. I was 22 and reflecting on life and the journey I had been on from being diagnosed bipolar at 16, to falling in love and having my heart broken and travelling around the world. I had also been struggling with anxiety for a long time.
This ‘I have learnt’ list was partly inspired by the introduction to singer India Aries album ‘Love and Relationships’. The words are my own. I hope if you are feeling sad or if you are contemplating things in your own life that these words give you strength.
A letter to my future self, I have learnt (From 2010)
‘Dear future me
I sit here as a woman who has survived trauma and illness, travelled to 3 continents and got a university degree. I sit here as a woman who has survived a severely broken heart.
I have learnt that love is not enough.
I have learnt that just because everyone else does something doesn’t mean I have to.
I have learnt that I have inner reserves of strength.
I have learnt that a supportive family or network is everything.
I have learnt that loneliness is painful- but is part of life experience.
I have learnt that life is joy and pain and mundanity.
I have learnt that some people are meant to leave your life physically but leave an impression on your heart.
I have learnt that facing life takes a lot of courage.
I have learnt that we need the love of others. A person is not a person without other people.
I have learnt to assess character.
I have learnt not to fall too easily.
I have learnt that having a shattered heart or mind is painful but not the end.
I have learnt that the mind is incredibly powerful and we have to learn to master it.
I have learnt that food is good.
I have learnt that fears are blessings because by pushing through them we grow.
I have learnt about the power of the soul.
Be strong. Believe even at your saddest moments.
I love this. It’s so beautiful; and yes, food is good😅
LikeLike
Thank you so much im so pleased you like it x
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’re welcome
LikeLike
You are beautiful and you are loved, no matter what you did or was done to you. Namaste.
LikeLike
Wow thank you so so much! What a kind and lovely comment. Welcome to the blog xx
LikeLike
some wise words from your younger self.
I read a lot of sadness in that letter, but also grit and determination to keep on going. Thanks for sharing that
LikeLiked by 2 people
Hi Phil. There was sadness then but there is much more happiness now. Grit and determination are what gets us all through. Thanks so much for taking the time to read it and comment.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I’m trying to embody the idea of grit. I watched a great TED talk on it. But my tendency to avoid triggering situations is really high, and more often than not I give myself excuses to not challenge them.
But I’m certainly trying. Thanks for sharing your experiences 🙂 I’m finding that reading through other peoples blogs is helpful for keeping my own focus and determination.
LikeLike
I also have the same problem with avoidance.But I think the best thing to do is do more gradually and when you feel able.
Im so pleased this post helped you. I also find reading others posts helpful. Thanks for leaving me a comment and kind words xx
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wow! I’ve just had a mental health crisis and these words are totally what I need to hear. May I reblog this? 💖
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hi. Im sorry to hear you are going through a hard time but pleased you liked my letter. Of course you can reblog. Thanks so much. Lots if love x
LikeLiked by 1 person
Reblogged this on SUMMER STARTS TO SHINE and commented:
I asked to reblog this…I love reading about other blogger’s wisdom and journeys, especially during times of personal crisis. This is a really special piece of writing 💖
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much ❤
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’re welcome. I always ask bloggers first before I reblog and I was really pleased that you said yes 🤗😊 *jazz hands*
LikeLiked by 1 person
Any time summer 🙂 lol jazz hands back
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wise words from ur younger self
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is so wise and beautiful. It made me cry. ❤ Thank You. ❤
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ah thank you so much. I hope happy tears. You will be ok 🙂 and are always welcome here x
LikeLike