(image: Shelley the Artist/ E Segall)
Exciting times! Thank you so much to my fellow mental health blogger Mandy Kloppers at Thoughts of Life and Love blog for hosting my blog on why I wrote Arabella and the Worry Cloud– to help children with anxiety. I know Shelley illustrated it for the same reason. I had so many worries as a child and young adult- I definitely had my own Worry Cloud!
When I was a little girl and well into my teen years and beyond, I had a lot of anxieties. As a self-confessed empath and worrier, I could feel when something was wrong. This led to separation anxiety with symptoms including nausea at school. Children who have anxiety need to feel safe, settled and above all, heard by parents/carers and the adults in their life at school.
I wrote my first children’s picture book, Arabella and the Worry Cloud, in 2019 and published it last year. It is based on me as a young 7-year-old girl who had a lot of anxiety. In the book, Arabella worries about her socks not fitting on her feet, losing her shoes in a muddy puddle, the rain soaking her and cold freezing her toes, the rainbow in the sky losing its colour, her cat Pickles getting lost, the plants in the garden dying, losing her homework, failing a test and being blown away by the wind. These worries are partly represented by a Worry Cloud that comes down to see her from the sky and threatens to rain on her with all her worries.
Eventually, Arabella realises that if she thinks jolly, happy, sunny thoughts in place of the worries, she can push the Worry Cloud away with the joyous light beams of positive thinking. Arabella unlocks happy memories with her family, visualising wonderful times with them and it gives her confidence to face the Worry Cloud head on, so it can go away and leave her in peace.
So many children will have their own version of the Worry Cloud.
(image: Shelley the Artist/ E Segall)
Read the full blog here about how my experiences informed me writing Arabella and how it can help you:
https://thoughtsonlifeandlove.com/why-i-wrote…/95242/
Arabella and the Worry Cloud is out now on Amazon, for 4-8 year olds.
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Books like this are great. It’s my guess based on looking back on my childhood (memories that go back to when I was 18 months old) that children often lack the vocabulary to communicate various emotions. Name it to tame it would be one benefit. Getting assurances from significant adults would be helpful.
In my case I learned my parents mother tongue and started to transition to english when I was 4 or 5 years old. So that also created a gap in learning vocabulary related to emotions; knowing the Dutch word for some, English words for some, and no words for other emotions till much later in life.
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Thanks so much for sharing :). Its so true, its hard for children to communicate.
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