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It can often feel like the educational system is not set up to deal with anyone who falls outside of a fairly narrow set of parameters. If you know a teen who is dealing with a mental illness, you have most likely seen ways that the system fails to help him or her. If you want to help that teen succeed, though, you can take a few of the steps below.
Seek Out Treatment
The first, and perhaps most important, step is always ensuring that the teen in question is actually receiving treatment for his or her illness. While you might think that the teen’s coping skills are up to the task of school, the truth is that professional help is still the best way to stay on track. Whether this means therapy, medication, or a combination of the two, seeking out treatment is always a wise first step, from a doctor (GP) or psychiatrist if needed.
Find the Right School
The next step requires taking a look at the school environment. Some students do well in a typical school, while others might need a more therapeutic environment. Even choosing a smaller college prep high school may be the best way to help out a teen who has to deal with significant emotional problems. The setting in which education occurs matters, so make sure that your teen has the support he or she needs.
Create a Support Network
Make sure that the teen in question doesn’t have to do it all on their own. Setting up a support network that involves friends, therapists, and even teachers is a great way to give your teen a bit of extra help when it comes to dealing with the tough days. While you should be careful with how you talk about your teen’s illness, it’s also a good idea to make sure that others are aware of what he or she is going through.
Involve the Teen
Finally, give the teen a stake in his or her success. Let him or her be part of the decisions about schooling, therapy, and finding the right support. Developing a sense of agency is a must for any person who deals with a mental illness, so start the process sooner rather than later.
Don’t be afraid to seek out help when your teen is struggling. Find a good therapist, build support networks, and make sure that you’re making the right educational sources.
With the right kind of help, your teen can be quite academically and emotionally successful.
Brooke Chaplan is a freelance writer and blogger. She lives and works out of her home in Los Lunas, New Mexico. She loves the outdoors and spends most of her time hiking, biking, and gardening. For more information, contact Brooke via Facebook at facebook.com/brooke.chaplan or Twitter @BrookeCha
2 thoughts on “How to help Teens with Mental Illness succeed at School: Guest blog by Brooke Chaplan”
The writer beautifully underscores the need for a person to be in a supportive school environment. That’s a critical way in which a person gets the message that they are a valued person.
Had a family transfer their child into our school because she was getting detentions on a daily basis. With that info from the parents I set up a meeting with the student, parents and each teacher. I outlined how we planned to be there for the student. Had only one incident that was effectively resolved in the 2 years before the person graduated out.
When a student is in crisis it’s not helpful to say we’re there for them. They need the message before they get into a crisis so they can experience the support and care.
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hi. this post was great. thanks for sharing it!
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